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KETIDAKPUASAN ISTRI-ISTRI

MUHAMMAD

uslim sering sesumbar dan berdalih bahwa di tengah iklimpoligami pun, istri-istri Muhammad tetap bahagia dan rumah

tangganya sakinah, mawaddah dan warohmah. Konon tak ada

ketidak-puasan diantara mereka. Bukti-bukti berikutmembungkam mitos tersebut!

DITEMPELENG KETIKA MINTA UANG

Abu Bakar menempeleng Aisyah dan Umar menempeleng Hafsah.

Muhammad cuma tertawa:

 Jabir b. ‘Abdullah (Auwloh be pleased with them) reported: Abu Bakr (Auwloh be pleased with him) came and sought permission to see

 Auwloh's Messenger (may peace be upon him). He found people sitting

at his door and none amongst them had been granted permission, but 

it was granted to Abu Bakr and he went in. Then came 'Umar and hesought permission and it was granted to him, and he found Auwloh's Apostle (may peace be upon him) sitting sad and silent with his wives

around him. He (Hadrat 'Umar) said: I would say something whichwould make the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) laugh, so he

said: Messenger of Auwloh, I wish you had seen (the treatment meted 

out to) the daughter of Khadija when she asked me some money, and 

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I got up and SLAPPED HER on her neck. Auwloh's Messenger (may  peace be upon him) LAUGHED and said: They are around me as you

see, asking for extra money . Abu Bakr (Auwloh be pleased withhim) then got up went to 'A'isha (Auwloh be pleased with her) AND

SLAPPED HER on the neck, and 'Umar stood up before Hafsa and 

slapped her saying: You ask Auwloh’s Messenger (may peace be uponhim) which he does not possess. They said: By Auwloh, we do not ask 

 Auwloh’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) for anything he doesnot possess. Then he withdrew from them for a month or for twenty-

nine days. Then this verse was revealed to him: "Prophet: Say to thy 

wives… for a mighty reward" (xxxiii. 2 . He then went first to 'A'isha(Auwloh be pleased with her) and said: I want to propound something

to you, 'A'isha, but wish no hasty reply before you consult your  parents. She said: Messenger of Auwloh, what is that? He (the Holy 

Prophet) recited to her the verse, whereupon she said: Is it about you

that I should consult my parents, Messenger of Auwloh? Nay, I choose Auwloh, His Messenger, and the Last Abode; but I ask you not to tell 

any of your wives what I have said. He replied: Not one of them will ask me without my informing her. God did not send me to be harsh, or 

cause harm, but He has sent me to teach and make things easy.(Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3506)

KETIDAKPUASAN ATAS POLIGAMI MUHAMMAD 

Muhammad melanggar sendiri Quran surat an-Nisaa’ 4:3 denganpoligami lebih dari empat. Menurut Qurat surat al-Ahzab 33:51,

Muhammad boleh memilih semaunya kapan dan dengan istri yangmana ia mau menghabiskan waktu sekehendak hasratnya. Akibatnya,

Aisyah, istri kanak-kanaknya, merasa tertekan atas perilaku egois

Muhammad dan betapa gegabahnya si Auwloh memenuhi kemauandan nafsu nabinya:

Narrated Aisha:

I used to look down upon those ladies who had given themselves to

 Auwloh’s Apostle and I used to say, "Can a lady give herself (to aman)?" But when Auwloh revealed: "You (O Muhammad) can postpone

(the turn of) whom you will of them (your wives), and you may receive any of them whom you will; and there is no blame on you if 

you invite one whose turn you have set aside (temporarily)." (33.51) I 

said (to the Prophet), "I feel that YOUR LORD HASTENS in FULFILLINGYOUR WISHES and DESIRES." (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 6, Book 60,

Number 311)

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Narrated Muadha:

’Aisha said, "Auwloh's Apostle used to take the permission of that wifewith whom he was supposed to stay overnight if he wanted to go to

one other than her, after this Verse was revealed:--

’You (O Muhammad) can postpone (the turn of) whom you will of them (your wives) and you may receive any (of them) whom you will;

and there is no blame on you if you invite one whose turn you haveset aside (temporarily).’" (33.51) I asked Aisha, "What did you use to

say (in this case)?" She said, "I used to say to him, ‘If I could deny 

you the permission (to go to your other wives) I would not allow your favor to be bestowed on any other person.’" (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume

6, Book 60, Number 312)

Istri-istri Muhammad Protes dan Ngambek!! 

UMAR BIN KHATTAB MENASEHATKAN HAFSAH AGAR TABAH

BILA MUHAMMAD LEBIH MENYUKAI AISYAH

… Then ‘Umar went on relating the narration and said. "I and an Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiya bin Zaid who used to live in

‘Awali Al-Medina, used to visit the Prophet in turns. He used to go one

day, and I another day. When I went I would bring him the news of what had happened that day regarding the instructions and orders and 

when he went, he used to do the same for me. We, the people of Quraish, used to have authority over women, but when we came to

live with the Ansar, we noticed that the Ansari women had the upper hand over their men, so our women started acquiring the habits of the

 Ansari women. Once I shouted at my wife and she paid me back in my 

coin and I disliked that she should answer me back. She said, ‘Why doyou take it ill that I retort upon you? By Auwloh, THE WIVES OF THE 

PROPHET RETORT UPON HIM, AND SOME OF THEM MAY NOT SPEAK WITH HIM FOR THE WHOLE DAY TILL NIGHT.’ What she said scared 

me and I said to her, ‘Whoever amongst them does so, will be a great 

loser.’ Then I dressed myself and went to Hafsa and asked her, ‘Does ANY OF YOU KEEP AUWLOH's APOSTLE ANGRY ALL THE DAY LONG

TILL NIGHT ?’ She replied in the affirmative. I said, ‘She is a ruined losing person (and will never have success)! Doesn’t she fear that 

 Auwloh may get angry for the anger of Auwloh's Apostle and thus she

will be ruined? Don’t ask Auwloh’s Apostle too many things, and don't retort upon him in any case, and don't desert him. Demand from me

whatever you like, and don’t be tempted to imitate your neighbor (i.e.

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‘Aisha) in her behavior towards the Prophet), FOR SHE (i.e. Aisha) ISMORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU, AND MORE BELOVED to Auwloh’s

 Apostle. (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 3, Book 43, Number 648)

dan...

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas:

that ‘Umar entered upon Hafsa and said, "O my daughter! Do not bemisled by the manners of her who is proud of her beauty because of 

the love of Auwloh’s Apostle for her." By ‘her’ he meant ‘Aisha. ‘Umar 

added, "Then I told that to Auwloh’s Apostle and he smiled (on hearingthat)." (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 145)

PARA ISTRI SAKIT HATI DENGAN AISYAH, ZAINAD DAN UM

SALAMA PROTES. TIMBUL PERTENGKARAN!

Narrated ‘Urwa from ‘Aisha:

The wives of Auwloh's Apostle were in two groups. One groupconsisted of 'Aisha, Hafsa, Safiyya and Sauda; and the other group

consisted of Um Salama and the other wives of Auwloh's Apostle. TheMuslims knew that Auwloh’s Apostle loved ‘Aisha, so if any of them

had a gift and wished to give to Auwloh's Apostle, he would delay it,

till Auwloh’s Apostle had come to ‘Aisha's home and then he would send his gift to Auwloh’s Apostle in her home. The group of Um

Salama discussed the matter together and decided that Um Salamashould request Auwloh's Apostle to tell the people to send their gifts to

him in whatever wife’s house he was. Um Salama told Auwloh’s Apostle of what they had said, but he did not reply. Then they (those

wives) asked Um Salama about it. She said, "He did not say anything

to me." They asked her to talk to him again. She talked to him againwhen she met him on her day, but he gave no reply. When they asked 

her, she replied that he had given no reply. They said to her, "Talk tohim till he gives you a reply." When it was her turn, she talked to him

again. He then said to her, "Do not hurt me regarding Aisha, AS THE 

DIVINE INSPIRATIONS DO NOT COME TO ME ON ANY OF THE BEDSEXCEPT THAT OF AISHA." On that Um Salama said, "I repent to

 Auwloh for hurting you." Then the group of Um Salama called Fatima,the daughter of Auwloh’s Apostle and sent her to Auwloh’s Apostle to

say to him, "Your wives request to treat them and the daughter of Abu

Bakr ON EQUAL TERMS." Then Fatima conveyed the message to him.The Prophet said, "O my daughter! Don’t you love whom I love?" She

replied in the affirmative and returned and told them of the situation.

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** Auwloh sekali lagi menegaskan bahwa Muhamad tidak bolehmengharamkan apa yg dihalalkan baginya, alias nabi tidak perlu

mematuhi janjinya kpd istri-istrinya bahwa ia tidak lagi akan berlama-lama di rumah Zainab, mencicipi 'madu'.

Hiii....jorok...kemproh!

AISYAH SENDIRI MENGATAKAN, BAHWA MUSLIMAH ADALAHWANITA YANG PALING TIDAK BERBAHAGIA DIBANDINGKAN

PEREMPUAN MANAPUN!!

Narrated ‘Ikrima:

Rifa’a divorced his wife whereupon ‘AbdurRahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi married her. 'Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green

veil (and complained to her (‘Aisha) of her husband and showed her a

green spot on her skin caused by beating). It was the habit of ladies tosupport each other, so when Auwloh’s Apostle came, ‘Aisha said, "I 

have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believingwomen. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!" When

‘AbdurRahman heard that his wife had gone to the Prophet, he camewith his two sons from another wife. She said, "By Auwloh! I have

done no wrong to him but he is impotent and is as useless to me as

this," holding and showing the fringe of her garment, ‘Abdur-Rahmansaid, "By Auwloh, O Auwloh’s Apostle! She has told a lie! I am very 

strong and can satisfy her but she is disobedient and wants to go back to Rifa’a." Auwloh’s Apostle said to her, "If that is your intention, then

know that it is unlawful for you to remarry Rifa’a unless ‘Abdur-Rahman has had sexual intercourse with you." Then the Prophet saw two boys with ‘Abdur-Rahman and asked (him), "Are these your 

sons?" On that ‘AbdurRahman said, "Yes." The Prophet said, "Youclaim what you claim (i.e. that he is impotent)? But by Auwloh, these

boys resemble him as a crow resembles a crow," (Sahih al-Bukhari,

Volume 7, Book 72, Number 715)

Hihihihi….rumah tangga nan berantakan!!Muhammad suami yang tidak fair, diskriminatif & gagal

mencegah rasa iri diantara istri-istrinya.

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