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LESSONS ONLESSONS ON

ISLAMICISLAMIC

CONCEPT OF ADABCONCEPT OF ADABBy: Ustaz Zhulkefee Hj Ismail

InshaAllah-This is a follow-up course, after copletio!of "# wee$s course o! the $ita% &Talim al-MutaallimTariqit Taallum ' of Shei$h Ta(u))i! Nu*a! +ar!u(i

" No.e%er /0"" 1E.er2 3e)!es)a2 !i4ht 5 #p3isa I!)ah 66# Cha!4i 7),80/-00Ne9t to Mas(i) :assi1,

Arabicplural1 ofAdab; ea!i!4s < &4oo)%ree)i!4, )ece!c2, !urture, 4oo) a!!ers,re=!ee!t, culture), )ecoru, courteous,eti>uette, propriet2, social 4race, to e)ucate,)iscipli!e, the hua!ities, etc?'sense ofproportion and knowledge of their rightful place inthe order of things, the absence of which indicatesinjustice

LESSON8 @LESSON8 @IN T! NAM! "# A$$AM"%T &"M'A%%I"NAT!M"%T M!(&I#)$*

All (ights (eser+ed hulke.ee j Ismail /01223All (ights (eser+ed hulke.ee j Ismail /01223

0N4()N "# T! M"4)$!


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ArabicArabicplural1 ofplural1 ofAdabAdab; ea!i!4s < &4oo); ea!i!4s < &4oo)

%ree)i!4, )ece!c2, !urture, 4oo) a!!ers,%ree)i!4, )ece!c2, !urture, 4oo) a!!ers,

re=!ee!t, culture), )ecoru, courteous,re=!ee!t, culture), )ecoru, courteous,

eti>uette, propriet2, social 4race, to e)ucate,eti>uette, propriet2, social 4race, to e)ucate,

)iscipli!e, the hua!ities, etc?')iscipli!e, the hua!ities, etc?'

All (ights (eser+ed hulke.ee j Ismail /01223

sense of proportion and

knowledge of their rightful place

in the order of things, the absence

of which indicates injustice


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556e are /much3 in need of a little6e are /much3 in need of a little

adab, from /that of3 going outadab, from /that of3 going out

/seeking3 after much of 7ilm/seeking3 after much of 7ilm

/knowledge38/knowledge38

99 Imam 7Abdullah al-MubarakImam 7Abdullah al-Mubarak



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&I! u!)ersta!)i!4 our Self* Nafs1, each o!e of

us as Muslis, ust %e rei!)e) of our

co.e!a!t a)e is the worl) of the Souls uire

$!owle)4e with &Adab?'

7ECAP P7EIOS LESSON



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7ECAP P7EIOS LESSON


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5 5as there not been o+er Man a long period ofas there not been o+er Man a long period of

Time, when he was nothing--/not e+en3Time, when he was nothing--/not e+en3

mentioned=> ?eril< 6e created Man from amentioned=> ?eril< 6e created Man from a

drop of mingled sperm, in order to tr< him@ sodrop of mingled sperm, in order to tr< him@ so

6e ga+e him /the gifts3, of earing and %ight*6e ga+e him /the gifts3, of earing and %ight*

6e showed him the 6a


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7elatio!ship with the Self7elatio!ship with the Self

TE 3O7LDTE 3O7LD

TIMETIME

%!$#%!$#BODHBODH

TONETONE

MINMIN

DD

DESI7EDESI7E

EA7TEA7T

I!itial traitsI!itial traits ;;J"K Appetite,J"K Appetite,

J/K Eotio! still li!$ to !ee)s,J/K Eotio! still li!$ to !ee)s,

JK curiosit2, eor2,JK curiosit2, eor2,

J6K iitati.e, see, liste! )o,J6K iitati.e, see, liste! )o,

J@K applicatio! ofJ@K applicatio! of

%asic se!sor2 feeli!4s%asic se!sor2 feeli!4s

NA#% al-NA#% al-

AMMA(AAMMA(A/&ommanding/&ommanding

self3self3Li!$ to .ariousLi!$ to .ariousuwwahuwwahpowers1;powers1;

J"KJ"K shahwi


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7elatio!ship with the Self7elatio!ship with the Self

TE 3O7LDTE 3O7LD

TIMETIME

%!$#%!$#BODHBODH

TONETONE

MINMIN

DD

DESI7EDESI7E

EA7TEA7T

I!itial traitsI!itial traits ;;J"K Appetite,J"K Appetite,

J/K Eotio! still li!$ to !ee)s,J/K Eotio! still li!$ to !ee)s,

JK curiosit2, eor2,JK curiosit2, eor2,

J6K iitati.e, see, liste! )o,J6K iitati.e, see, liste! )o,

J@K applicatio! ofJ@K applicatio! of

%asic se!sor2 feeli!4s%asic se!sor2 feeli!4s

NA#% al-NA#% al-

AMMA(AAMMA(A/&ommanding/&ommanding

self3self3Li!$ to .ariousLi!$ to .ariousuwwahuwwahpowers1;powers1;

J"KJ"K shahwi22ashahwi22a

)esires1)esires1J/KJ/K

4ha)a%i22a4ha)a%i22a

a!4er1a!4er1

JKJK 3ahi2ah3ahi2ah

ia4i!ati.e1ia4i!ati.e1J6KJ6K a>li22a a>li22a

thou4hts1thou4hts1Iporta!ce of li!4uistics to thou4hts;


55e /Allah3 has created man@ e has impartede /Allah3 has created man@ e has imparted

unto him articulate thought and speech*8 /@EE@ D-E3unto him articulate thought and speech*8 /@EE@ D-E3


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7ECAP P7EIOS LESSON


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B2 retraci!4 our life, we start withB2 retraci!4 our life, we start with

u!)ersta!)i!4 our %asic !ature as au!)ersta!)i!4 our %asic !ature as a

hua! %ei!4 - ha.i!4 i!here!thua! %ei!4 - ha.i!4 i!here!t

powers a!) their pote!tialities to %epowers a!) their pote!tialities to %e

)e.elope)?)e.elope)?



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I! our relatio!ship re4ar)i!4 ourI! our relatio!ship re4ar)i!4 our

E)ucatio! < we are to e!cou!ter, i?e?E)ucatio! < we are to e!cou!ter, i?e?

assiste) %2 our e)ucators - withassiste) %2 our e)ucators - with

what is referre) to as,what is referre) to as,

&&knowledgeknowledge'?'?



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Het, we are %or! helpless a!) ha.e toHet, we are %or! helpless a!) ha.e to

%e care), !urture), to %e i!culcate)%e care), !urture), to %e i!culcate)

with )iscipli!e, tau4ht a!) )e.elope)with )iscipli!e, tau4ht a!) )e.elope)

%2 a%2 a MurabbiMurabbiEDCATO71 < the =rst ofEDCATO71 < the =rst of

who are our PA7ENTS?who are our PA7ENTS?



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7elatio!ship with the Pare!ts7elatio!ship with the Pare!ts

a!) Teachera!) Teacher

Het, we are %or! helpless a!) ha.e toHet, we are %or! helpless a!) ha.e to

%e care), !urture), to %e i!culcate)%e care), !urture), to %e i!culcate)

with )iscipli!e, tau4ht a!) )e.elope)with )iscipli!e, tau4ht a!) )e.elope)

%2 a%2 a MurabbiMurabbiEDCATO71 < the =rst ofEDCATO71 < the =rst of

who are our PA7ENTS?who are our PA7ENTS?


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Isla; to su%it the e!tireself %o)2, to!4ue, hearta!)Mi!)1 < Freei!4 it fro)esire

which !ee)s to alwa2s %eui)e)

TE 3O7LDTE 3O7LD

TIMETIME

%!$#%!$#BODY

TONGUE

MINDDESIE

HE!T

O%e)ie!ce to Pare!ts a!) teachersO%e)ie!ce to Pare!ts a!) teachers

Be4i!!i!4 of

e)ucatio!;J"K Tarbi


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Isla; to su%it the e!tireself %o)2, to!4ue, hearta!)Mi!)1 < Freei!4 it fro)esire

which !ee)s to alwa2s %eui)e)

TE 3O7LDTE 3O7LD

TIMETIME

%!$#%!$#BODY

TONGUE

MINDDESIE

HE!T

O%e)ie!ce to Pare!ts a!) teachersO%e)ie!ce to Pare!ts a!) teachers

Be4i!!i!4 of

e)ucatio!;J"K Tarbi


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55F" manG be grateful towards Me and towardsF" manG be grateful towards Me and towards

th< parents, Fand remember thatG with Me isth< parents, Fand remember thatG with Me is

all journe


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All (ights (eser+ed hulke.ee j


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554" M!N TIN that on their FmereG4" M!N TIN that on their FmereG

sa


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5 5as there not been o+er Man a long period ofas there not been o+er Man a long period of

Time, when he was nothing--/not e+en3Time, when he was nothing--/not e+en3

mentioned=> ?eril< 6e created Man from amentioned=> ?eril< 6e created Man from a

drop of mingled sperm, in order to tr< him@ sodrop of mingled sperm, in order to tr< him@ so

6e ga+e him /the gifts3, of earing and %ight*6e ga+e him /the gifts3, of earing and %ight*

6e showed him the 6a


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55And Fremember the timeG when


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The $e2 toThe $e2 to

succee) i! this test assuccee) i! this test as

well as to )eser.ewell as to )eser.e

achie.i!4 furtherachie.i!4 further

i!crease of %estowalsi!crease of %estowals

fro Allah?fro Allah?

2et how )oes o!e2et how )oes o!e%ecoe 4rateful 3hat%ecoe 4rateful 3hat

are the iporta!tare the iporta!t

criteriacriteria

"?"? Ac$!owle)4e a!) e9tolAc$!owle)4e a!) e9tol

praises of the true 4i.er,praises of the true 4i.er,

Allah 3ho alo!e is o),Allah 3ho alo!e is o),

the Bestower of all fa.ours?the Bestower of all fa.ours?

A.oi) coitti!4 &A.oi) coitti!4 &%I(%I('?'?

/?/? Lear! the .alue of what isLear! the .alue of what is

4i.e!, appreciati!4 the4i.e!, appreciati!4 the

co!sta!tl2, )o !ot ta$e a!2co!sta!tl2, )o !ot ta$e a!2

of these fa.ours forof these fa.ours for

4ra!te)?4ra!te)?

?? tilie what is 4i.e! i!tilie what is 4i.e! i!

accor)a!ce to what a2accor)a!ce to what a2

please the i.er i?e? )oplease the i.er i?e? )o

CRITERIACRITERIA



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55Pegin with what Allah beginsPegin with what Allah begins

with8with8

//adith of 'rophet Muhammadadith of 'rophet Muhammad

&O 2ou who ha.e %elie.e), )o !ot put

J2oursel.esK %efore Allah a!) is Messe!4er

%ut %e co!scious of a!) 1 fear Allah? I!)ee),

Allah is eari!4 a!) :!owi!4?'

ur*a!; u(urat; 6Q; "1



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55AN4 6"(%I' /ser+e3 Allah FaloneG,AN4 6"(%I' /ser+e3 Allah FaloneG,

and do not ascribe di+init


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55Allahs pleasure /acceptance3 is in theAllahs pleasure /acceptance3 is in the

pleasure /acceptance3 of


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55/A person3 is not grateful to Allah, those/A person3 is not grateful to Allah, those

who are unwilling to /or cannot3 bewho are unwilling to /or cannot3 be

grateful towards people8grateful towards people8

//adith reported b< Tirmid;iadith reported b< Tirmid;i33



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55FAllahG said, Q" Rohn, take the %cripture withFAllahG said, Q" Rohn, take the %cripture with

determination*Q And 6e ga+e him judgementdetermination*Q And 6e ga+e him judgement

Fwhile


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55FResusG said, QIndeed, I am the ser+antFResusG said, QIndeed, I am the ser+ant

of Allah* e has gi+en me the %criptureof Allah* e has gi+en me the %cripture

and made me a prophet* And e hasand made me a prophet* And e has

made me blessed where+er I am and hasmade me blessed where+er I am and has

enjoined upon me pra


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And 6e ha+e enjoined on man /to be good3 to

his parents@

in tra+ail upon tra+ail did his mother bear him,

and in


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55Put if the< endea+our to make


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A man came to the 'rophet s*a*w* seeking his

permission to participate in Rihad /battle in defence

of Islam3* e was asked@ 5Are


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5 *** in tra+ail upon tra+ail did his mother bear

him, and in


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5Th< $ord hath decreed that


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5 5And, out of kindness, lower to them theAnd, out of kindness, lower to them the

wing of humilit


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55Allahs pleasure /acceptance3 isAllahs pleasure /acceptance3 isin the pleasure /acceptance3 ofin the pleasure /acceptance3 of


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Do !ot wal$ i! fro!t or ahea)1 of theR

Ne.er call the %2 their perso!al

!aesR

Not to sit i! fro!t of theR

Do !ot o%(ect to their a).ise a!)

whate.er the2 e!(oi! upo! for 2ouR



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Do !ot eat the foo) which is i! fro!t of

theR

Do !ot sit o! a place hi4her tha! where

the2 are seate)R

Do !ot %e )iso%e)ie!t towar)s the?



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To 4i.e a si!ister loo$ at the especiall2

whe! i! a!4er1, i!clu)i!4 other su%tle

si4!s of )ispleasure towar)s theR

To co!si)er e.e! i! thou4ht1 o!eself to

%e e>ual to theR

Arro4a!ce a!) )isrespectful %2 refusi!4

to $iss their ha!)sR



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Bei!4 ashae) to let others $!ow thatBei!4 ashae) to let others $!ow that

the2 are his pare!ts, especiall2 whe! hethe2 are his pare!ts, especiall2 whe! he

has %ecoe accoplishe) a!) has statusRhas %ecoe accoplishe) a!) has statusR

The worst is to sa2 to the e.e! &The worst is to sa2 to the e.e! &aahOaahO ''

or such e9pressio! of )is4ust, or a!2 otheror such e9pressio! of )is4ust, or a!2 other

acts which are ea!t to hurt their feeli!4s,acts which are ea!t to hurt their feeli!4s,

to )eea!, to )espise, to )e4ra)e etc? toto )eea!, to )espise, to )e4ra)e etc? to

a$e the loose their respect a!) )i4!it2?a$e the loose their respect a!) )i4!it2?



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Abu Pakar r*a* narrated the (asulullah s*a*w* once said@Abu Pakar r*a* narrated the (asulullah s*a*w* once said@

55%hall I inform


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To o%e2 pare!ts, e9cept i! atters ofTo o%e2 pare!ts, e9cept i! atters of

ma-si


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3he! pare!t spea$s, to liste! a!) )o3he! pare!t spea$s, to liste! a!) )o

!ot i!terrupt u!til heGshe has =!ishe)!ot i!terrupt u!til heGshe has =!ishe)

what heGshe wish to co!.e2? If !ee) towhat heGshe wish to co!.e2? If !ee) to

respo!) or see$i!4 clari=catio!, to see$respo!) or see$i!4 clari=catio!, to see$

the sai) pare!t*s perissio! =rst?the sai) pare!t*s perissio! =rst?

Prese!ti!4 o!e*s .iew to the ust %ePrese!ti!4 o!e*s .iew to the ust %e)o!e without %ei!4 isco!strue) as)o!e without %ei!4 isco!strue) as

%ei!4 )isrespectful or re%elli!4?%ei!4 )isrespectful or re%elli!4?



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To $iss their ha!)s whe!e.er re>uire)?To $iss their ha!)s whe!e.er re>uire)?

To preser.e their 4oo) !aes, theirTo preser.e their 4oo) !aes, their

ho!oura%le status a!) their properties?ho!oura%le status a!) their properties?

To ho!our the %2 4ra!ti!4 the their

re>uests?

Alwa2s i!.ol.e the i! 2our

co!sultatio!s of atters?



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Alwa2s a$e 4uasupplicate1 for their

well-%ei!4 a!) see$ Allah*s for4i.e!ess

for the?3he! the2 recei.e 4uests, %e rea)2

!ear%2 to ser.e, (ust i! case 2our

pare!ts !ee) 2our assista!ce re4ar)i!4

the?



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To alwa2s )o thi!4s which will please

the, e.e! thou4h the2 )i) !ot

re>uest?Do !ot irritate the with %ei!4 lou) i!

speech, or usi!4 of electro!ic )e.ises

etc? i! their prese!ce?

Do !ot %ecoe too i!.ol.e i! whate.er

2ou are )oi!4 as to %e see! or %e

re4ar)e) as i4!ori!4 the?All (ights (eser+ed hulke.ee j


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Do !ot lea.e the house or lea.e their

prese!ce without ta$i!4 lea.e fro

the i?e? see$ their perissio!1Do !ot )istur% the i! their rest or

sleep?

Do !ot put or e9cee) others wife or

chil)re!R wor$ or ho%%2 etc?1 i!

prefere!ce o.er the?



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Do !ot criticise the whe! their opi!io!Do !ot criticise the whe! their opi!io!

a2 !ot %e a4reea%le to 2ou?a2 !ot %e a4reea%le to 2ou?

Do !ot lau4h i! their prese!ce, lest the2Do !ot lau4h i! their prese!ce, lest the2

a2 isi!terpret that, as 2our oc$i!4a2 isi!terpret that, as 2our oc$i!4

or a$i!4 fu! of the?or a$i!4 fu! of the?

Do !ot %e4i! eati!4 %efore the, u!lessDo !ot %e4i! eati!4 %efore the, u!less

the2 ha.e peritte)?the2 ha.e peritte)?



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Do !ot stretch out to ta$e foo) %eforeDo !ot stretch out to ta$e foo) %efore

the, whe! )i!i!4 to4ether with the?the, whe! )i!i!4 to4ether with the?

Do !ot lie )ow!, slouch or sleep whe!Do !ot lie )ow!, slouch or sleep whe!

the2 are sitti!4 with 2ou, u!less the2the2 are sitti!4 with 2ou, u!less the2

perit?perit?



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Do !ot stretch out 2our feet at the or

i! fro!t of the?

Do !ot e!ter %efore the, or wal$ahea) of the? If !ee) to pass i! fro!t

of the, to respectfull2 see$ their

perissio!?



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Be >uic$ to respo!) to their call < a!)

respo!se with &lab-ba


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Do !ot %efrie!) a!2 perso! who is

)isrespectful to their ow! pare!ts?

E9press 2our lo.e tothe, a!) forthei?e? if spea$i!4 with others1?



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After the2 ha.e passe) awa2, alwa2s

supplicate 4ua1 for the, as this will

still %e!e=t the?7ecite fre>ue!tl2, especiall2 this 4ua;

RAB-BIR HAM-HUMAA KA-MAAROB-BA-YAA-NEE SWO-GHEE-RAA

5" m< $ord /Allah3O #orgi+e /be Merciful to3 the bothof them, as the< ha+e shown merc< towards me since


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" Allah," Allah,

bless Muhammad, Th< sla+ebless Muhammad, Th< sla+e

and Th< messenger,and Th< messenger,

and his ousehold, the pure,and his ousehold, the pure,

and single them out for theand single them out for thebest of Th< blessings,best of Th< blessings,

Th< merc


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" Allah," Allah,bless Muhammad and hisbless Muhammad and his

ousehold,ousehold,

teach me through inspirationteach me through inspiration

knowledge of e+er


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" Allah," Allah,

bless Muhammad and hisbless Muhammad and his

ousehold,ousehold,

as Thou hast ennobled usas Thou hast ennobled us

through him,through him,and bless Muhammad and hisand bless Muhammad and his

ousehold,ousehold,

as Thou hast made incumbentas Thou hast made incumbent

upon usupon us

rights toward the creaturesrights toward the creaturesbecause of himObecause of himO


From al-Shahifa al-Kamaliya al-SajjadiyaFrom al-Shahifa al-Kamaliya al-Sajjadiya

is eemplar< %upplication for his 'arents /upon themall be peace3

Imam Ali ibn Hussayn

ibn Ali ibn Abi Tolib

with

Fatimah binte

Muhammad

HIS LINEAGEHIS LINEAGE


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" Allah," Allah,

:ll me with awe of m


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so that I ma< prefer theirso that I ma< prefer their

inclinationinclination

to m< inclination,to m< inclination,

set their satisfaction beforeset their satisfaction before

m< satisfaction,m< satisfaction,

make much of their de+otionmake much of their de+otionto meto me

though it be little,though it be little,

and make little of m


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" Allah,lower before them m< +oice,make agreeable to them m

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