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    @h` 8 ; Zergldhfhg

    8' ]hdrli Gldhf ;

    l, Mhrl secl `hfhsh ; Ldhthg hthu slapunhg'

    ll, Mhrl secl lstlnhf _yhrhd ; _uhtu Ldhthg hthu hdhm yhgc aegcfhnhndhg perchunhgmhg aea`hths fhd mhg dewhklphg serth ertbnbgc!tbnbgc ml hgthrh sebrhgc nenhdlmegchg sebrhgc pereapuhg yhgc ml hgthrh demuhgyh `udhg ahfrha'

    0' Zerdhfwlghg hmhnhf aeruphdhg sugghf Phsununnhf s'h'w' mhg mlchnhddhg mlmhnha Lsnha serth mltugtut bnef Fudua _yhrhd. se`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhfs'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum ;

    " Gldhf ltu hmhnhf sugghfdu. ahdh seslhph yhgc `egol sugghfdu ahdh sesugccufgyh lh`udhg mhrl cbnbgchgdu "' & Plwhyht L`gu Ahkhf ,

    ?' Mhnln yhgc aegugkuddhg `hfhwh perdhfwlghg ltu mltugtut bnef

    syhrhd hmhnhf sepertl `erldut ;

    Mhnln mhrl Hn!Xurhg yhgc erahdsum ; "Ahdh erdhfwlgnhf megchg seslhph yhgcdhau `erdeghg mhrl pereapuhg!pereapuhg nhlg muh. tlch hthu eapht' Deaumlhg

    kldh dhau `la`hgc tlmhd hdhg `ernhdu hmln& ml hgthrh lsterl!lsterl dhau, ahdh`erdhfwlgnhf megchg sebrhgc shfhkh"' & _urhf Hg ! Glshh# ! Hyht ? ,

    Mhnln mhrl Hs!sugghf yhgc erahdsum; "Shfhl peaumh!peaumh. seslhph yhgcahapu ml hgthrh dhau &aeapugyhl `enhgkh serth delgclghg, fegmhd `erdhfwlg.fegmhdnhf lh dhfwlg. derhgh sesugccufgyh perdhfwlghg ltu hdhg aeaekhadhgahthgyh &terfhmhp brhgc yhgc tlmhd fhnhn mlnlfhtgyh, mhg terdhwhn defbrahthggyhmhg seslhph yhgc tlmhd ahapu `erdhfwlg fegmhdnhf lh `erpuhsh. `hfhwh puhsh ltu

    aegkhml `egtegc"' & Plwhyht Ausnla , Mhrl Lkahd Unhah ; _eauh unhah sephdht aegchthdhg hfhwh fudua perdhfwlghg

    ltu hmhnhf mltugtut bnef Fudua _yhrhd'

    =' Fudua `erdhfwlg ltu hmh eapht ;

    8' Shkl` ! Brhgc yhgc oudup enhgkh mhg tlmhd mhpht aeghfhg ghisugyh'0' _ught ! Brhgc yhgc oudup enhgkh mhg lgclg erdhfwlg'?' Ahdruf ! Brhgc yhgc oudup enhgkh tethpl tlhmh delgclghg erdhfwlg'=' Fhrha ! Brhgc yhgc yhdlg tlmhd mhpht aenhdshghdhg thgccugckhwh`'

    5' Pudug!rudug gldhf ;

    Nenhdl yhgc hdhn aegkhml suhal' Zereapuhg yhgc hdhn aegkhml lsterl' Shnl yhgc hmln Muh brhgc shdsl yhgc hmln Lkh` mhg Xh`un &]hwhrhg mhg Zegerlahhg,

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    9' _yhrht!syhrht nenhdl `hdhn suhal ;

    8' @erhchah Lsnha0' ]lmhd erlfrha fhkl hthu uarhf?' Nenhdl tertegtu

    =' @enua aeapugyhl eapht lsterl5' Megchg derenhhg mlrl segmlrl udhg phdshhg9' _ebrhgc nenhdl &`udhg dfugsh ausydln,

    3' _yhrht!syhrht pereapuhg `hdhn lsterl ;

    8' @erhchah Lsnha'0' Zereapuhg yhgc tertegtu'?' @udhg Ahfrha dephmh nenhdl yhgc hdhn aegkhml suhalgyh=' @udhg lsterl brhgc mhg tlmhd ml mhnha emmhf brhgc nhlg'5' ]lmhd erlfrha fhkl hthu uarhf'

    6' _yhrht!syhrht whnl ;

    8' @erhchah Lsnha'0' _ebrhgc nenhdl'?' @hnlcf'=' Megchg derenhhg segmlrl udhg phdshhg'5' ]lmhd erlfrha fhkl hthu uarhf'9' Brhgc yhgc hmln & tlmhd ihslq ,'3' _ebrhgc yhgc seapurgh hdhngyh'

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    _lcfhf Xh`un ; Lhltu uphohrh pegerlahhg mhrlphmh nenhdl segmlrl hthupug whdlngyh setenhfseneshl slcfhf lkh` megchg tlmhd mlsenhgcl bnef hph!hph perdhthhg hslgc hthu ahsh yhgcphgkhgc'

    Obgtbfgyh ; "Hdu terlah gldhf Ihtlahf te H`munnhf megchg ahsdhfwlggyh PA =:':: tughl" '

    88' ]hgccugckhwh` suhal dephmh lsterl ;

    8' Zea`erlhg ahsdhfwlg'0' Zea`erlhg ghidhf'?' @erdenhduhg hld'=' Aea`erl la`lgchg'5' Aegkhch defbrahthg lsterl'9' Aea`erl nhyhghg zhflr mhg htlg'3' Aenhdudhg dehmlnhg sedlrhgyh erpbnlchal'

    80' ]hgccugckhwh` lsterl dephmh suhal ;

    8' Shkl` thht dephmh suhalgyh'0' Shkl` tlgcchn ml ruahf yhgc mlethpdhg bnef suhalgyh'?' Shkl` aegkhch defbrahthg mlrlgyh'=' Shkl` aegkhch ruahfthgcchgyh'5' ]lmhd aegbnhd phgcclnhg suhal kldh mlphgccln de teapht tlmur'

    8?' ]hgccugckhwh` `ershah suhal mhg lsterl ;

    8' Fhnhn perchunhg se`hchl suhal!lsterl'0' _uol eglf deturughg'?' Sukum fhd pushdh!aeapushdhl ml hgthrh demuhgyh'=' _hf thrhi hghd &deturughg, dephmh suhal'5' Dewhklphg demuhgyh ernhdu mhnha perchunhg'9' @eraesyuhrht mhg er`lgohgc ml mhnha fhn efwhn ruahfthgcch'3' @ernhdu hmln ml mhnha sechnh `egtud deflmuphg'

    _ua`er Pukudhg ;

    8' Ilqf Laha Hs!_yhile ! Fk' Lmrls `lg Hfahm '0' Plgcdhshg Aughdhfht ! L`gu Phfaht '

    @h` 0; Duiu Mhnha Zergldhfhg

    8' Duiu `erahdsum pershahhg. denhyhddhg hthu sephmhg'0' Duiu tlmhd aegkhml syhrht mhnha perdhfwlghg. tethpl kldh tlmhd megchg deremfhhg

    ahslgc!ahslgc. ahdh bnefnhf aeaihshdfdhg gldhfgyh ltu megchg hnhshg tlmhdduiu'

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    ?' Ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' ml mhnha Hn!Xur#hg yhgc `erahdsum ; "Shfhl sedenlhg ahguslhsesugccufgyh dhal khmldhg dhau mhrl nenhdl mhg pereapuhg mhg dhal khmldhg dhau`er`hgcsh!`hgcsh mhg erpuhd!puhd hchr dhau deghn!aegceghn ml hgthrh shtumegchg yhgc nhlg . `hfhwh sesugccufgyh seaunlh!aunlh dhau ml slsl Hnnhf yhgc

    phnlgc `erthqwh mlhgthrh dhau . sesugccufgyh Hnnhf Ahfh Aegcethful mhg Ahfh@lkhdshgh "'

    =' _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum ; "]lmhd hmh dene`lfhg brhgc Hrh` hthsbrhgc yhgc `udhg Hrh` mhg se`hnldgyh. tlmhd hmh brhgc putlf hths brhgc fltha mhgse`hnldgyh. tethpl dene`lfhg yhgc shtu mhrl yhgc nhlg fhgyhnhf megchg thqwh "'

    5' Duiu `erpugoh mhrlphmh nlah se`h` ;

    _enhaht mhrlphmh #hl` sepertl clnh hthu pegyhdlt dunlt' Aermedh `udhg fha`h ' Deturughg' Zederkhhg' #Liihf &De`bnefhg hthu desbphghg ,

    @h` ? ; Dflhr Mhnha Zerdhfwlghg

    8' Dflhr erahdsum shnhf shtu plfhd shahmh suhal hthu lsterl aeapugyhl fhd ugtudaealnlf ml hgthrh mlterusdhg gldhfgyh hthu ihshdf'

    0' Hph`lnh ernhdu pergldhfhg ml hgthrh sebrhgc nenhdl megchg sebrhgc pereapuhg yhgctlmhd mldethful hmh ohoht!oenhgyh. ahdh bnefnhf demuh enhf plfhd hthu shnhf shtumhrlphmhgyh dflhr'

    ?' @hcl nenhdl yhgc aea`bnefdhg dflhr phmhgyh hmh nlah perdhrh lhltu;

    H' Clnh'@' Khzha' & pegyhdlt dusth ,O' @hrhsf' & pegyhdlt sbphd ,M' [hdhr yhgc terpbtbgc seauh sedhnl hthu sephruf'E' #Ugghf & ahtl puoud ,

    =' @hcl pereapuhg yhgc aea`bnefdhg dflhr phmhgyh hmh nlah perdhrh;

    h, Clnh'`, Khzha' &pegyhdlt dusth,o, @hrhsf &pegyhdlt sbphd,m, Puthqh# &ihrhk yhgc tersua`ht megchg mhclgc mhg aegcfhnhgc mhrl persetu`ufhg,e, Xurhgh# &ihrhk yhgc tersua`ht megchg tunhgc mhg aegcfhnhgc mhrl persetu`ufhg,

    5' Kldh ernhdu shnhf shtu mhrlphmh ohoht!oenh lgl ahdh `bnefnhf demuh enhf plfhd hthushnhf shtu mhrlphmhgyh dflhr. ihshdf hqhm gldhf se`erhph secerh megchg syhrht mlnhdudhgdflhr mlfhmhphg Xhmfl'

    9' #Ugghf & ahtl puoud , tlmhd mlghildhg aenhlgdhg pegchduhg mhrl suhal segmlrl mlfhmhphg Xhmfl hthu megchg shdsl yhgc aegyhdsldhg ldrhrgyh hthu megchg suaphf lsterl

    kldh suhalgyh egcchg aea`uht pegchduhg. ahdh mltethpdhg `hfhwh lh ahtl puoud.

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    senephs ltu Xhmfl aea`erl teapbf sethfug dephmh suhal suphyh eru`ht'Hph`lnh sumhfsethfug teapbfgyh kldh lh tlmhd ahapu aegsetu`ufl lsterlgyh ahdh lsterl aegchmu dephmhXhmfl ahdh mlterlah ihshdfgyh'

    @h` =; Shglth!whglth \hgc Fhrha Mldhfwlgl

    8' Zereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc fhrha mldhfwlgl ltu ter`hfhcl dephmh muh hfhclhg;

    l' Fhrha uht senhahgyh'll' Fhrha uht seaegthrh whdtu'

    0' _e`h`!se`h` fhrha mldhfwlgl;

    l' Fhrha megchg se`h` deturughg'll' Fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg'lll' Fhrha megchg se`h` perseaegmhhg' & Ausyhfhrhf ,

    ?' Fhrha megchg se`h` deturughg;

    l' L`u mhg geged flgcch de hths'll' Hghd mhg ouou flgcch de`hwhf'lll' Hmld!`erhmld pereapuhg sel u!se`hph hthu se hph hthu sel u shfhkh'lv' L`u shumhrh se enhf `hph & hmld erhmld pereapuhg se`enhf hph , flgcch de

    hths'v' L`u shumhrh se enhf l u & hmld!`erhmld pereapuhg se enhf l u , flgcch de hths'vl' Hghd shumhrh mhrl hmld!`erhmld nenhdl flgcch de`hwhf'vll' Hghd shumhrh mhrl hmld!`erhmld pereapuhg flgcch de `hwhf' ! Ilrahg Hnnhf

    s'w't' yhgc `erahdsum;

    "Mlfhrhadhg de hths dhau aegchfwlgl l`u dhau. hghd shumhrh. eahd shumhrh se`enhf`hph . eahd shumhrh se`enhf l`u . hghd shumhrh mhrl shumhrh nenhdl mhg hghd shumhrh mhrl shumhrh pereapuhg dhau "' & _urhf Hg!Glshh# ! Hyht 00 ,

    =' Fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg ;

    l' L`u yhgc aegyusudhg'll' _humhrh pereapuhg sesusuhg' Ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' yhgc `erahdsum ;

    "Mlfhrhadhg l`u!l`u yhgc aegyusudhg dhau mhg shumhrh! sumhrh dhau sepersusuhg"'& _urhf Hg!Glshh# ! Hyht 0? ,

    _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w yhgc erahdsum;

    "Fhrha mhrl susuhg se`hchlahgh fhrha mhrl deturughg "' &Plwhyht @udfhrl mhg Ausnla,

    Zereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg hmhnhf shah megchg brhgc!brhgcyhgc fhrha megchg se`h` deturughg'

    @h` =; Shglth!whglth \hgc Fhrha Mldhfwlgl

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    5' _yhrht!syhrht fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg ;

    h, L`u yhgc tenhf aegyusudhg ltu tenhf `hnlcf' `, Hghd yhgc mlsusudhg ltu `eruslh muh thfug' _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w'

    yhgc erahdsum; "]lmhdnhf susuhg ltu aenhlgdhg mhnha nlgcdugchg uaur muhthfug"' & Plwhyht MhruXutgl ,

    o, @lnhgchg aegyusu shaphl nlah dhnl yhgc erhslgchg mhg setlhp dhnl aegyusu aestlshaphl degyhgc' _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum; " Hmhnhf phmh hyht yhgcmlturugdhg mhrlphmh Hn!Xurhhg lhnhf sepunuf dhnl susu yhgc ahdnua nhcl aegcfhrhadhg deaumlhg mlahgsufdhg megchg nlah dhnl susu shfhkh"' & Plwhyht Ausnla ,

    m, _usu yhgc ml`erl dephmh dhghd!dhghd ltu aestlnhf mltenhg mhg shaphl de perutdhghd!dhghd ltu phmh denlah!nlahgyh' _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc`erahdsum; "]lmhd mlfhrhadhg erdhfwlg mhrl susuhg ltu aenhlgdhg susuhg yhgcshaphl dephmh perut dhghd!dhghd ltu mhg pegyusuhg ltu punh aestl `umhd yhgcaegyusu ltu `enua `eruaur muh thfug"'

    _edlrhgyh tlmhd aeaegufl syhrht!syhrht yhgc terse`ut ahdh tlmhdnhf fhrha `erdhfwlg mlhgthrh l`u yhgc aegyusudhg megchg hghd yhgc mlsusudhg mhg seterusgyh'

    9' Fhrha yhgc mlse`h`dhg perseaegmhhg & Ausyhfhrhf , ;

    L`u aertuh shahmh mhrl deturughg hthu pegyusuhg' L`u tlrl hthu geged tlrl flgcch de hths' Aeghgtu pereapuhg & lsterl hghd , hthu lsterl ouou flgcch de hths' Hghd tlrl megchg syhrht sumhf aegsetu`ufl l`ugyh. kldh enua mlsetu`ufl deaumlhg

    mloerhldhg ahdh tlmhd fhrha aegchfwlgl hghd tlrlgyh ltu shahmh hghd tlrl ltu mhrldeturughg hthu pegyusuhg' _e`hchlahgh ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' yhgc erahdsum;

    " Mhg mlfhrhadhg l`u lsterl dhau mhg hghd tlrl yhgc ml mhnha peaenlfhrhhg dhau kldhl`ugyh tenhf dhau setu`ufl . ahdh kldh l`ugyh `enua dhau setu`ufl ahdh `bnefnhf dhauaegchfwlgl hghd tlrl ltu mhg `ecltu kuch fhrha aegchfwlgl lsterl hghd dhau yhgc sekhtl "'& _urhf Hg ! Glshh# ! Hyht 0? ,

    Mhg ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' nhcl yhgc erahdsum;

    " Khgchgnhf dhau dhfwlgl pereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc tenhf mldhfwlgl bnef hph dhau& l`u tlrl , "' & _urhf Hg!Glshh# ! Hyht 00 ,

    3' Zereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc fhrha mldhfwlgl uht seaegthrh whdtu megchg se`h`aegcflapugdhggyh ;

    _humhrh pereapuhg se`enhf lsterl' _e`hchlahgh ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' yhgc`erahdsum; " Mhg fhrha dhau aegcflapugdhg muh pereapuhg yhgc ershumhrhdeouhnl hph yhgc tenhf nhnu "' & _urhf Hg! Glshh# ! Hyht 0? ,

    Hghd shumhrh lsterl se`enhf hph' Hghd shumhrh lsterl se`enhf hph' Hghd shumhrh lsterl mhrl shumhrh nenhdl' Hghd shumhrh lsterl mhrl shumhrh pereapuhg'

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc erahdsum; "]lmhd bnef mldhfwlgl sebrhgc pereapuhg yhgc mlflapugdhg megchg eahd shumhrh se`enhf `hphmhg tlmhd `bnef hgthrheahd shumhrh se`enhf `hph megchg hghd pereapuhg shumhrh nenhdl mhg tlmhd `bnefmldhfwlgl sebrhgc pereapuhg mlflapug megchg eahd shumhrhgyh se`enhf l`u `ecltu kuchml hgthrh eahd shumhrh se`enhf l`u megchg hghd pereapuhg mhrl shumhrh pereapuhg tlmhd yhgc `eshr megchg yhgc deoln mhg tlmhd yhgc deoln megchg yhgc `eshr "' & Plwhyht Ht

    !]lralmzl ,

    Pukudhg ; Dlth` Ahtfnh#hn @hmrhlg ! Aufhaahm lg Lsahln Mhum lg Hn!Ihtfhgl'

    @h` 5; Zegcertlhg Ahsdhfwlg

    8' ZEGCEP]LHG AH_DHFSLG & AHFHP ,'

    Ahsdhfwlg hmhnhf pea`erlhg yhgc whkl` ml`erl bnef suhal dephmh lsterlgyh megchg se`h`perdhfwlghg' Ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' yhgc erahdsum ;

    " @erldhgnhf dephmh brhgc!brhgc pereapuhg ltu ahsdhfwlg aeredh "' & _urhf Hg!Glshh# ! Hyht = ,

    _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum ;

    "Ohrlnhf ugtud mlkhmldhg ahsdhfwlg whnhupug se`egtud olgolg yhgc mlper`uht mhrlphmh esl '" & Plwhyht @udfhrl ,

    Mhrl fhmltf ml hths gyhthnhf hfhwh ahsdhfwlg bnef mlkhmldhg mhrlphmh hph shfhkhhshndhg egmh ltu ercugh mhg `erihemhf shah hmh eruph whgc .`hrhgc hthu sesuhtuyhgc erahghihht se`hchlahgh ml`erlthdhg Phsununnhf s'h'w' perghf aegcdhfwlgdhgsebrhgc nenhdl yhgc tlhmh aealnldl sesuhtu pug ugtud mlkhmldhggyh ahsdhfwlg nhnu

    Phsununnhf s'h'w' erthgyh dephmh nenhdl ltu. hmhdhf phmh egcdhu &fhihz , semldlt mhrlphmhhyht Hn!Xur#hg. nenhdl ltu aegyhfut hfhwh lh aegclgchtl e`erhph surhf deaumlhgPhsununnhf s'h'w' pug aegchfwlgdhg nenhdl ltu megchg `erahsdhfwlgdhg surhf yhgcmlhkhrdhg dephmh pereapuhg yhgc hdhn aegkhml lsterlgyh'

    Ahsdhfwlg ltu tlmhd mlfhmdhg bnef syhrhd hgyhd hthu semldlt. khml ugtud aegegtudhg`hgyhd hthu semldltgyh ltu terpunhgcnhf dephmh muh plfhd ml hths persetukuhggyh mhg`ermhshrdhg thrhi hthu mhrkht pegchgtlg terse`ut mhg fudua syhrhd tlmhd aegcchnhddhgahsdhfwlg yhgc ternhnu tlgccl yhgc aegye`h`dhg desudhrhg hcl plfhd nenhdl'

    _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum;

    " _e`hld!`hld ahsdhfwlg lhnhf yhgc ne`lf regmhf "' & Plwhyht H`u Mhum ,

    Mhg sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum;

    " _esugccufgyh yhgc eshr erdht gldhf lhnhf yhgc semerfhgh enhgkhgyh "' & Plwhyht Hfahm ,

    0' @HFHCLHG!@HFHCLHG AHFHP ;

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    h, Ahfhr Alsln' Lhltu Ahfhr yhgc mlglnhl aegcldut ahsdhfwlg shumhrh!shumhrh pereapuhgyhgc tenhf erdhfwlg ne`lf mhfunu mhg fegmhdnhf yhgc mlglnhl shah megchg ahsdhfwlgdenuhrchgyh yhgc phnlgc medht sedhnl sepertl dhdhd. l`u shumhrhgyh mhg seterusgyhmlshaplgc aeglnhldhg dehmhhg pereapuhg ltu segmlrl mhrl secl deohgtldhg. dedhyhhg.penhkhrhg mhg se`hchlgyh'

    `, Ahfhr Aushaah' Lhltu ahsdhfwlg yhgc tenhf mltethpdhg mhg tenhf mlpersetukul bnefdemuh!muh enhf plfhd megchg tlmhd aeahgmhgc dephmh glnhl ahsdhfwlg shumhrh!shumhrhpereapuhg ltu'

    ?' FUDUA AEG\E@U] AH_DHFSLG ML SHD]U HXHM GLDHF;

    l , Shkl`'

    h' Kldh hdhn lsterl ltu sebrhgc umhd yhgc ahslf deoln. clnh hthu bmbf semhgcdhg hdhnsuhal lgclg aea`hyhr ahfhr yhgc ne`lf tlgccl mhrl ahfhr yhgc sephtutgyh & Ahfhr Alsln ,'

    `' Kldh `hdhn lsterl yhgc sumhf `hnlcf `lkhd mhg `bnef aegcurusdhg mlrlgyh segmlrl mhg tenhfaea`eghrdhg whnl ugtud aegcdhfwlgdhggyh tethpl lh tlmhd aegyerhfdhg dephmh whnlugtud aegethpdhg ahsdhfwlggyh'

    o' Kldh `hdhn suhal ltu tlmhd `bnef aegcurusdhg fhn mlrlgyh segmlrl sepertl ahslf `umhd. clnhhthu `bmbf mhg se`enua hdhm tenhf aegmhpht persetukuhg mhrl `hdhn lsterl terse`ut tegthgc`hyhrhg ahsdhfwlg durhgc mhrlphmh ahfhr yhgc sephtutgyh. bnef yhgc mealdlhgahsdhfwlg whkl` mlgyhthdhg se`hchlahgh yhgc mlpersetukul' Ahdsum whkl` mlslgl udhgnhf`erertl perdhfwlghg ltu tlmhd shf. tethpl per`uhthg ltu mlhgcchp ermbsh mhg ahsdhfwlgml`hyhr aegcldut dhmhr yhgc sephtutgyh & Ahfhr Alsln ,'

    ll , _ught'

    Phsununnhf s'h'w tlmhd perghf aeglgcchndhg mhrl aegye`utgyh seahsh hdhm. hph`lnh lhaegldhfdhg brhgc nhlg' Megchg aegye`utgyh seahsh hdhm `ernhgcsugc mhphtaegcenhddhg mhrl ernhdu persenlslfhg. erfu`ugc megchggyh. mlshaplgc mhphtaea`ezhdhg mlhgthrh perdhfwlghg lhsh megchg perdhfwlghg phmh sebrhgc pereapuhgyhgc aegcfe`hfdhg mlrlgyh dephmh Phsununnhf s'h'w' thgph ahfhr' _edlrhgyh ahfhr tlmhdml se`ut mlahsh hdhm. tlmhdnhf `erertl hdhm perdhfwlghg ltu tlmhd shf tethpl ahdruf kldhahfhr ltu tlmhd mlse`ut'

    =' SHKL@ AH_DHFSLG

    Ahsdhfwlg ltu whkl` ml`hyhr aegcldut se`hchlahgh yhgc terse`ut mlmhnha hdhm kldhmlgyhthdhg mlahsh hdhm mhg ahsdhfwlg ltu whkl` ml`hyhr megchg dehmhhg!dehmhhg yhgc`erldut;!

    l, Hph`lnh suhal aegethpdhg yhgc lh hdhg aea`hyhrgyh se`enua mudfun mhg mlpersetukulbnef plfhd lsterl. bnef yhgc mealdlhg lsterl erfhd aenhrhgc hthu aecfhnhgc suhal mhrlaegsetu`uflgyh seflgcch suhal terse`ut aegegtudhg dhmhr ahsdhfwlg yhgc hdhgml`erlgyh shah hmh megchg ohrh tughl hthu futhgc. kldh mlkhgkldhg tughl ahdh plfhd lsterl`erfhd aegcfhnhgc suhal terse`ut mhrl aegsetu`uflgyh seflgcch mlkenhsdhgahsdhfwlggyh ltu'

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    ll, @lnh pegethphg ahsdhfwlg ltu ml`uht bnef dhml megchg se`h` deegcdhrhg plfhd suhalmhrl aea`uht detethphg hthu megchg se`h` per`hnhfhg hthu persenlslfhg demuh enhf plfhdtegthgc dhmhr ahsdhfwlg terse`ut mhg lnh dhml aegegtudhggyh hdhg ahsdhfwlg terse`ut.fegmhdnhf ml`hyhr tughl &tlmhd bnef futhgc,'

    5' CUCUP _EZHPUF AH_DHFSLG

    Hph`lnh ernhdu thnhd se`enua persetu`ufhg ahdh cucurnhf sephruf ahsdhfwlgse`hchlahgh ilrahg Hnnhf th#hnh \hgc erahdsum; "Mhg kldh dhau aegoerhldhg pereapuhgse`enua persetu`ufhg semhgcdhg dhau tenhf aegegtudhg dephmh pereapuhg terse`uthdhg ahsdhfwlggyh . ahdh `hcl pereapuhg ltu setegchf mhrl hph yhgc dhau tegtudhgltu"'

    Cucur sephruf ahsdhfwlg sedlrhgyh peroerhlhg lgl ernhdu erpugoh mhrl plfhd suhal.sepertl suhal khml aurthm hthu suhal aegchgut Lsnha mhg lsterlgyh tlmhd' ]ethpl sedlrhgyh`ernhdu peroerhlhg ltu erpugoh mhrl plfhd lsterl. sepertl suhal aeaihshdfdhg perdhfwlghgterse`ut megchg se`h` deohohthg yhgc hmh phmh lsterl ahdh ahsdhfwlg ltu hdhg cucurseauhgyh'

    9' AH]L _UHAL H]HU L_]EPL _E@ENUA ZEP_E]U@UFHG

    Kldh sebrhgc suhal aeglgcchn muglh se`enua ernhdu persetu`ufhg. plfhd whrls sl suhalwhkl` aea`hyhr ahsdhfwlg ltu sepegufgyh dephmh edhs lsterlgyh mhg kldh ahsdhfwlg ltu`enua mltegtudhg dhmhrgyh. ahdh whkl` ml`hyhr megchg glnhl ahfhr alsln'

    _e`hnldgyh punh kldh sebrhgc lsterl aeglgcchn muglh se`enua ernhdu persetu`ufhg. plfhdsuhal whkl` aea`hyhr ahsdhfwlg sepegufgyh dephmh whrls `edhs lsterlgyh kldhahsdhfwlg ltu enua mlkenhsdhg nhcl'

    _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' \hgc `erahdsum;

    "Mhrl Hnqhahf dhthgyh sebrhgc pereapuhg tenhf erdhfwlg megchg sebrhgc nenhdl deaumlhg nenhdl ltu ahtl se`enua shaphl aegsetu`ufl lsterlgyh ltu mhg ahsdhfwlg pug`enua mltegtudhg dhmhrgyh' Dhth Unqhahf. aeredh aegchmu fhn terse`ut dephmh H`munnhf.ahdh H`munnhf erpegmhpht pereapuhg ltu `erfhd aegmhpht ahfhr alsln sepegufgyh. mhg

    pereapuhg ltu `erfhd aegmhpht pushdh mhg whkl` punh megchg `eremmhf' Ahdh detldh ltuL`gu Ah#dun `lg _hghg Hn! _hkh#l aegkenhsdhg `hfhwh sesugccufgyh Gh`l s'h'w' tenhfaeautusdhg terfhmhp @hrhq `lg Shshq sepertl yhgc ml`uht bnef H`munnhf thml"' &Plwhyht

    Hn!]hralmzl,

    3' AU]#HF

    Aut#hf erertl shtu pea`erlhg mhrl suhal dephmh lsterl sewhdtu lh aegoerhldhggyh'Zea`erlhg lgl hmhnhf whkl` ml`erldhg sedlrhgyh peroerhlhg ltu `ernhdu megchg defegmhdsuhal. udhg deahfuhg lsterl' @hgyhdgyh pea`erlhg ltu hmhnhf ermhshrdhg dephmhpersetukuhg hthu deremfhhg demuh!muh enhf plfhd. ml shaplgc aeapertla`hgcdhgdehmhhg demuh!muhgyh shah hmh dhyh hthu alsdlg mhg se`hchlgyh tlmhd durhgc mhrlsephruf ahfhr'

    Ilrahg Hnnhf; Ertlgyh ; ]eghgcdhg bnefau fhtl aeredh megchg pea`erlhg mhg nephsdhgnhfaeredh megchg ohrh yhgc `hld' & _urhf Hn!Hfzh` hyht =

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    Aughdhfht @h` 9; Shnlahf Hn!Urus

    ZEGCEP]LHG SHNLAH]UN HPU_

    Shnlahtun hrus lhnhf degmurl hcl aerhldhg hthu aerhyhdhg pegchgtlg hru' Shnlahf lhnhf khauhg hchah. udhg khauhg hmht de`lhshhg yhgc ml`uht derhgh

    Hnnhf. udhg khauhg de`hgcchhg mhg udhg sua`er ugtud aegmhpht deugtugchgmuglhwl'

    ZEG_\HPL H]HG SHNLAH]UN HPU_

    Aegchmhdhg ahknls whnlahf hmhnhf shgcht mlchnhddhg mhnha Lsnha' _h`mh Phsununnhf shnnhnnhfu hnhyfl whshnnha;

    Ahdsumgyh; H`mun Phfahg lg Hwi aenhdudhg perdhfwlghg. ahdh Phsununnhf shnnhnnhfuhnhyfl whshnnha ersh`mh dephmhgyh; Fegmhdnhf hgmh aegchmhdhg whnlahf whnhupugmegchg seedbr dha`lgc' &Hn!Fhmltf,

    ]UKUHG SHNLAH]UN HPU_

    ]ukuhg aegchmhdhg whnlahf hmhnhf ugtud aegcuauadhg pergldhfhg ml shaplgcaegccea`lrhdhg pegchgtlg yhgc hru aegkekhdl klgkhgc penhalg mhg lh kuch se`hchlthgmh decea`lrhhg brhgc tuh derhgh aegmhpht aeghgtu `hru' Zegcuauahg yhgcse`hld! hldgyh lhnhf ahknls perdhfwlghg yhgc mlhmhdhg ml ahsklm mhg mlpuduncegmhgc mhg re`hgh'

    _h`mh Phsununnhf shnnhnnhfu hnhyfl whshnnha;

    Ahdsumgyh; Uauadhgnhf perdhfwlghg mhg senegcchrhdhgnhf ml ahsklm mhg pudunnhfcegmhgc mhg re`hgh phmh fhrl perdhfwlghg ltu' &Plwhyht Hfahm mhg ]lralzl,

    Bnef yhgc mealdlhg. mhnha aerhldhg decea`lrhhg terse`ut hmhnhf pegtlgc hcl dlthugtud aea`ezhdhg hgthrh hmht megchg l`hmht yhgc pernu mlphtufl' ]lmhd aegkhmldeshnhfhg dephmh dlth ugtud aegcldut hmht resha sese`uhf dhua hshndhg hmht ltutlmhd ertegthgchg megchg syhrh '

    Lsnha aegcchnhddhg fl`urhg yhgc semerfhgh mhg sbphg megchg aegcchrlsdhg`e`erhph syhrht sepertl erldut;

    8' ]lhmh perchunhg e`hs hgthrh nenhdl megchg whglth yhgc udhg ahfrha'

    0' Gyhgylhg mhg auzld yhgc tlmhd aegla`undhg ghisu'

    ?' ]lmhd aenhnhldhg lgchthg mhg dewhklphg terfhmhp Hnnhf su`fhghfu whth hnh'

    =' _egldhth gyhgylhg tlmhd aegchgmugcl perdhthhg!perdhthhg yhgc oh`un hthu tlmhdsbphg'

    FUDUA AEGCHMHDHGG\H

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    Fudua aegchmhdhg degmurl dhfwlg lgl hmhnhf sught auhddhm &shgcht mltugtut,se`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w yhgc `erahdsum;

    "Dhth Gh`l s'h'w' dephmh H`mun Phfahg `lg Hui sewhdtu `enlhu `erdhfwlg. fegmhdnhfdhau aegchmhdhg degmurl dhfwlg sedhnlpug fhgyh aegyea`enlf seedbr dha`lgc"'

    FUDUA AEGCFHMLPLG\H

    Aegerlah keaputhg de ahknls perdhfwlghg hmhnhf whkl` terfhmhp setlhp brhgc yhgcmlkeaput deouhnl hmh sesuhtu deuzurhg' ]lmhd mhpht aegcfhmlrlgyh mlse`h`dhg shdlt hthuse`hchlgyh. se`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum;

    "Hph`lnh dhau mlkeaput ugtud aegcfhmlrl ahknls degmurl dhfwlg. fegmhdnhf dhauaegcfhmlrlgyh"' &Plwhyht @udfhrl mhg Ausnla,

    _\HPH] SHKL@ DE AHKNL_ DEGMUPL DHFSLG HZH@LNH ML UGMHGC

    \hgc mlkeaput ltu `udhg dfusus dephmh brhgc yhgc dhyh shfhkh' Ml mhnha ahknls whnlahf terse`ut. tlmhd hmh sebrhgc pug termlrl mhrl ausufgyh' Mlmhnha ahknls whnlahf ltu. tlmhd hmh perdhrh yhgc augcdhr mhg ahdslht sepertl

    hrhd. kuml mhg kbcet' ]lhmh erohapur chun mlmhnha ahknls ltu megchg pereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc udhg

    ahfrhagyh' ]lhmh ershahhg hthu ertea`ugc mhnha ahknls terse`ut megchg tethau yhgc udhg

    Lsnha' Zerhnhthg ahdhg mhg algua tlmhd mhrlphmh `hrhgc yhgc mlfhrhadhg sepertl eahs.

    perhd mhg suterh' ]lmhd mldethful hdhg whgc per`enhgkhhg ltu mhrl yhgc fhrha' Kldh mlkeaput mhthgc phmh ahknls whnlahf terse`ut senhah 0 fhrl `erturut!turut.

    ahdh fhgyh whkl` mhthgc 8 fhrl shfhkh' \hgc aegkeaput ltu mhg yhgc mlkeaput ltu hmhnhf erhchah Lsnha'

    @h` 3; Aeredh \hgc Egcchg @erdhfwlg

    Dhfwlg hmhnhf _ugghf Phsununnhf s'h'w' mhg _ugghf phrh Gh`l!gh`l. mhg iltrhf yhgc sesuhlmegchg ghnurl ahguslh' Aeredh yhgc tlmhd ahfu `erdhfwlg mhg egcchg erdhfwlg hmhnhf`erahdgh aeredh tenhf aegslh!slhdhg flmupgyh ml muglh yhgc tenhf mlsemlhdhg Hnnhf ugtudfha`hgyh!Gyh aegldahtl sechnh pegcurglhhg!Gyh'

    Lsnha hmhnhf aenhrhgc uaahfgyh flmup aea`ukhgc ! thgph erdhfwlg megchg tukuhgugtud aegkhufdhg mlrl mhrl aegldahtl desemhphg erdenhalg mhg deseghgchg flmup mlmuglh

    serth aegcenhddhg mlrl mhrl aegldahtl decea`lrhhg erdenuhrch mhg tlmhd ahfuaeapugyhl deturughg'

    Mhnha Lsnha erdhfwlg hmhnhf aeruphdhg suhtu perdhrh yhgc mlchnhddhg. derhgh megchgperdhfwlghg ltu hdhg erdea`hgc lhd uaahf Gh`l Aufhaahm s'h'w'. mlahgh hclgmhhmhnhf aerhsh hgcch mhg ercea`lrh megchg se`h` hgyhd uaahtgyh' Lgl tenhfmlgyhthdhg bnef Phsununnhf s'h'w mhnha fhmltfgyh yhgc mlrlwhyhtdhg mhrlphmh _h#hm `lg H`lShqqhs ;

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    Phsununnhf s'h'w' tenhf aenhrhgc shfh`htgyh #Utfahg lg Ahz#ug flmup aea`ukhgc &thgph`erdhfwlg,' Hgmhlgyh @hclgmh aegclzlgdhg #Utfahg lg Ahz#ug aea`ukhgc &thgph`erdhfwlg,. tegteunhf dlth "fhrus" erdhsl' &Plwhyht @udfhrl,

    @h` 6; Dewhklphg L`u @hph ]erfhmhp Hghdgyh

    Demuh brhgc tuh ltu aeapugyhl dewhklphg aegmlmld mhg aegchkhr hghdgyh er`uht hldmhnha perchunhg serth hmh` sbphg mhnha flmup `eruahfthgcch megchg suhalgyh'Aegceghl lgl hmh mlrlwhyhtdhg hfhwh Hsah# lgtl Dfhrlkhf Ihzhrl erdhth dephmh hghdgyhsewhdtu perdhfwlghg hghdgyh megchg `erdhth;

    " Fhl hghddu. dlgl egcdhu tenhf denuhr mhrl shrhgc teapht egcdhu mlnhflrdhg seflgcchaegkhml `eshr' Dlgl egcdhu aestl `erhnlf de suhtu teapht mhg ruahf yhgc `enua dhu deghnmhg egcdhu aestl erdhwhg megchg sebhrhgc yhgc enua ml deghnl' Ltunhf suhalau. khmlnhfegcdhu se`hchl thghf ugtudgyh mhg lh hdhg aegkhml nhgclt ugtudau' Khmlnhf egcdhuse`hchl nhgthl ugtudgyh mhg lh hdhg aegkhml tlhgc ugtudau' Khmldhgnhf mlrlaupegchsufgyh. gesohyh lh hdhg aegkhml fha`hau' Khgchgnhf egcdhu aegcflapugdhgugtudgyh er`hchl desudhrhg. se`h` ltu hdhg aea`uhtdhg lh aeglgcchndhgau' Khgchgnhfegcdhu ternhaphu khuf mhrlphmhgyh. ghgtl lh hdhg aenuphdhgau' ]ethpl dhnhu lhaegmedhtlau. medhtlnhf lh mhg sedlrhgyh lh aegkhuflau. khuflnhf lh megchg hld.penlfhrhnhf suhalau. flmugcgyh. pegmegchrhggyh. ahthgyh mhg nhlg!nhlg' Khgchgnhfsuhalau ltu aegolua sesuhtu mhrl mlrlau aenhlgdhg yhgc fhrua. khgchg punh lhaegmegchr aenhlgdhg yhgc eghd. khgchg punh lh aenlfht aenhlgdhg yhgc lgmhf mhrl mlrl au'

    Dhth!dhth yhgc aeruphdhg duapunhg hmh` sbphg whglth pernu mlphgkhgcdhg. lhltu lsterlfegmhdnhf aeruphdhg tlhgc uthah ml tegchf ! tegchf ruahfgyh' Lsterl ltu fegmhdnhfsegtlhsh ml lnld ruahfgyh. aegethp mlteapht perdhdhs hgyhahggyh. tlmhd `hgyhd turugghldgyh hthupug denuhr' Lh aestl durhgc `er`lohrh terfhmhp tethgcchgyh' Khgchgnhfaeahsudl ruahf tethgcchgyh ltu aenhlgdhg mlmhnha dehmhhg yhgc aegcfhrusdhg lhahsud ml sltu'

    Lsterl fegmhdnhf aegkhch suhalgyh. hld sewhdtu lh percl hthupug detldh lh hmh ml ruahf'Fegmhdnhf mlushfhdhg hchr suhalgyh cea`lrh mhnha sechnh perdhrh yhgc mlfhmhplgyh'Khgchg sedhnl!dhnl lsterl aegcdflhghtl mlrlgyh segmlrl hthupug fhrth suhalgyh' Khgchg punhlsterl ltu denuhr mhrl ruahfgyh aenhlgdhg megchg lzlg suhalgyh' Kldh tenhf aegerlahdelzlghg mhg terphdsh denuhr. ahdh fegmhdnhf lsterl ltu erkhnhg `ersea`ugyl!sea`ugyl.`erphdhlhg yhgc semerfhgh. tlmhd aegmemhfdhg tu`uf mhg phdhlhggyh' Fegmhdnhf senhnu mlohrl teapht!teapht yhgc negchgc udhggyh teapht nhnunlgths brhgc rhahl seflgcch`ermeshd!meshddhg' Lh aestl aegcflgmhrdhg mlrl mhrl erohdhp!ohdhp mlkhnhghg megchgnenhdl udhg ahfrha'

    \hgc whkl` mluthahdhg bnef lsterl ltu lhnhf de`hldhg dehmhhggyh segmlrl serth aegchtur mhgaegtertl`dhg dehmhhg ruahfthgcchgyh' _enhlg ltu aestlnhf rhklg aenhdudhg l`hmht.sea`hfyhgc serth puhsh mhg nhlg!nhlg yhgc aegkhml dewhklphg mlrlgyh'

    Hph`lnh hmh dhwhg suhalgyh aealgth lzlg mhg semhgc erhmh ml fhmhphg plgtu. tethpl mlahsh ltu suhalgyh tlhmh. ahdh tlmhd pernunhf lh `erthgyh hthupug erohdhp ! ohdhpmegchggyh' Fegmhdnhf lh oea`uru phmh mlrlgyh segmlrl mhg kuch perhshhg oea`uruterfhmhp suhalgyh' _ebrhgc lsterl fegmhdnhf puhs megchg hph yhgc hmh phmh suhalgyhmhg hph shfhkh yhgc mlrezedldhg bnef Hnnhf ]hhnh dephmhgyh'

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    Zea`u`hrhg Zerdhfwlghg ; ]hnhq

    ZEGCEP]LHG ]HNHX

    ]hnhq mhrl secl `hfhsh `erertl aenephsdhg ldhthg'

    Mhrl secl syhrh lhnhf aenephsdhg ldhthg perdhfwlghg megchg aegccughdhg nhihz thnhq hthuseuaphahgyh'

    MHNLN FHPU_ ]HNHX

    Ilrahg Hnnhf su`fhghfu whth hnh;

    Ahdsumgyh; Oerhl &thnhq, ltu muh dhnl. senephs ltu pechgcnhf lsterl dhau &ruku mhgdedhnnhf, megchg ohrh yhgc `hld hthu nephsdhgnhf megchg ohrh yhgc `hld' &_urhf Hn!@hqhrhf. 0;00

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    ruahf eahd `hphd dhau' Nhihz dlghyhf lgl hdhg khtuf thnhq kldh suhal `erglhtaegoerhldhg lsterlgyh'

    =' Xhshm &glht,'

    FUDUA ]HNHX

    Fudua aegkhtufdhg thnhq phmh hshngyh mlfhrusdhg mhnha Lsnha. tethpl lh hdhg eru`hfaegkhml;

    8' Shkl`; _etenhf ruahfthgcch ltu chchn mlper`hldl megchg deputushg fhdla hthusuhal tenhf ersuaphf ugtud aegoerhldhg lsterlgyh'

    0' Fhrha; Aegoerhldhg lsterl seahsh lsterl ml mhnha whdtu fhlmf hthu detldh suoltethpl `hru mlsetu`ufl'

    ?' _ught; Kldh suhal tlmhd mhpht aegyeapurghdhg ghidhf htlg'

    =' Ahdruf; @bnef aegkhml fhrha kldh aegoerhldhg lsterl thgph se`h` yhgcaughsh`hf'

    Lsnha aegethpdhg fhgyh suhal shfhkh yhgc aeapugyhl duhsh ugtud aegkhtufdhg thnhq'Shnhu hchlahghpug. lsterl kuch ml`erldhg fhd ugtud aeabfbg oerhl megchg ohrh ihshdfhthu dfun &te`us thnhq,'

    ZEA@HFHCLHG ]HNHX

    ]hnhq ter`hfhcl dephmh muh kegls lhltu;

    8' ]hnhq rhk l. lhltu thnhq yhgc bnef mlruku dea`hnl thgph pernu hdhm gldhf lhltudetldh lsterl mhnha whdtu lmmhf &se`enua tlch dhnl suol mhrlphmh fhlmf,'

    0' ]hnhq `hlg. lh ter`hfhcl dephmh muh;

    h, @hlg sucfrh lhnhf thnhq yhgc tlmhd `bnef mlruku bnef suhal deouhnl mlhmhdhg hdhmgldhf seaunh lhltu peroerhlhg shah hmh aenhnul ihshdf. dfun hthu thnhq lsterl yhgc`enua mlsetu`ufl'

    o, @hlg du`rh lhnhf thnhq yhgc tlmhd `bnef mlruku dea`hnl megchg ohrh lhshaenhlgdhg setenhf syhrht erldut mlpegufl;

    8' _etenhf seneshl lmmhf sl lsterl'0' @edhs lsterl `erdhfwlg megchg suhal nhlg'?' _uhal nhlg aegyetu`ufl edhs lsterl ltu mhg ernhdu peroerhlhg'=' _eneshl lmmhf mhrl suhal yhgc nhlg ltu'

    @h` < ; Zea`u`hrhg Zerdhfwlghg ; Ihshdf

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    ZEGCEP]LHG IH_HDF

    Ihshdf lhnhf aea`hthndhg hthu aenephsdhg hdhm gldhf mlse`h`dhg bnef deohohthgyhgc ernhdu phmh whdtu hdhm hthu deohohthg yhgc aegmhthgc senephs ernhdugyhhdhm gldhf yhgc aegcfhnhgc dedhngyh perdhfwlghg'

    _E@H@ IH_HDF

    Hgthrh se`h` yhgc bnef aegye`h`dhg ernhdugyh ihshdf lhnhf;

    8' _e`h` yhgc aerbshddhg hdhm'

    h, Lsterl terahsud mhnha cbnbgchg brhgc yhgc fhrha mldhfwlgl shah hmh se`h` deturughg.susuhg hthu perseaegmhhg hthu edhs lsterl yhgc mhnha teapbf lmmhf thnhq suhalperthahgyh'

    `, Zergldhfhg yhgc mlnhdudhg seahsh enua hnlcf &deoln, mhg hph`lnh hnlcf algthmlihshdfdhg hdhm ltu'

    0' _e`h` yhgc aegmhthgc senephs pergldhfhg'

    h, _hnhf sebrhgc mhrlphmh suhal hthu lsterl ltu aurthm'

    `, Zhshgchg suhal lsterl udhg Lsnha seahsh ergldhf mhg shnhf sebrhgc aeaenud Lsnha'

    o, _uhal tenhf aenhdudhg shnhf shtu perdhrh yhgc mlfhrhadhg se`h` perseaegmhhg sepertl`erzlgh megchg l`u aertuh'

    Ahghdhnh mhnha Eghdaeg Ugmhgc!Ugmhgc Denuhrch Lsnha &Gecerl Aenhdh 0::0. _edsyeg5? aegechsdhg nhcl se`h`!se`h` yhgc aegye`h`dhg ernhdugyh ihshdf sepertl ml `hwhflgl;

    8' ]eapht ml ahgh `erhmhgyh suhal tenhf tlmhd mldethful senhah teapbf ne`lf mhrlsethfug'

    0' _uhal ouhl hthu tenhf tlmhd aegchmhdhg perugtudhg ghidhf hcl ghidhfgyhsenhah teapbf tlch `unhg'

    ?' _uhal tenhf mlfudua pegkhrh senhah teapbf tlch thfug hthu ne`lf'

    =' _uhal tenhf tlmhd aegughldhg thgph se`h` yhgc aughsh`hf ghidhf htlg senhahteapbf shtu thfug'

    5' _uhal ahtl puoud phmh ahsh perdhfwlghg mhg ahslf nhcl semealdlhg mhg lsterltlmhd thfu phmh ahsh perdhfwlghg hfhwh suhal ahtl puoud'

    9' _uhal tenhf clnh senhah teapbf muh thfug. semhgc aegclmhp pegyhdlt dusth hthusemhgc aegclmhp pegyhdlt denhalg yhgc bnef erkhgcdlt'

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    3' Lsterl tenhf mldhfwlgdhg bnef hph hthu mhtudgyh se`enua mlh aegohphl uauregha enhs &89, thfug. aegbnhd perdhfwlghg ltu se`enua aegohphl uaur nhphg`enhs &86, thfug mhg mlh `enua mlsetu`ufl bnef suhalgyh ltu'

    _uhal hthu lsterl aegchglhyhl lsterl hthu suhalgyh. lhltu hgthrhgyh;

    Nhzla aegyhdltl hthu aegkhmldhg deflmuphggyh aegmerlth mlse`h`dhg denhduhghglhyh'

    @erdhwhg megchg pereapuhg!pereapuhg hthu nenhdl yhgc erperhgchl khfht hthuflmup dekl aegcldut phgmhgchg fudua syhrh '

    Ou`h aeahdsh lsterl flmup seohrh nuohf' Aenupusdhg fhrth lsterl hthu suhal hthu aenhrhgc lsterl hthu suhal ltu mhrlphmh

    aegccughdhg fhd!fhdgyh ml slsl ugmhgc!ugmhgc terfhmhp fhrth ltu' Aegcfhnhgc lsterl hthu suhal mhrlphmh aegughldhg hthu aegkhnhgdhg dewhklphg

    hthu hahnhg hchahgyh' Kldh suhal aeapugyhl lsterl ne`lf mhrlphmh sebrhgc. mlh tlmhd aenhyhgl lsterlgyh

    seohrh hmln aegcldut defegmhd!defegmhd fudua syhrh '

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    Ilrahg Hnnhf su`fhghfu whth hnh;

    Ahdsumgyh; ]hnhq &yhgc `bnef mlruku dea`hnl, fhgyh muh dhnl' _esumhf ltu pechgcnhf&ruku , hthu nephsdhg &oerhl, megchg ohrh yhgc `hld' Mhg tlmhd fhnhn `hcl dhau aegcha`ln `hnld sesuhtu yhgc tenhf dhau `erldhg dephmh aeredh &lsterl yhgc dhau oerhldhg, deouhnl

    kldh demuhgyh thdut tlmhd mhpht aegechddhg perhturhg!perhturhg fudua Hnnhf' Bnef ltu.dhnhu demuh!demuh dhau dfuhtlr ahdh tlmhdnhf `ermbsh tegthgc `hyhrhg `hnld &te`us thnhq,yhgc ml`erldhg bnef lsterl ugtud aege`us mlrlgyh' &_urhf Hn!@hqhrhf. 0;00

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    _yhrht khtuf oerhl th nlq ;

    8' _uhal; Fegmhdnhf aeapugyhl dehfnlhg aegkhtufdhg oerhl megchg aenhihzdhg dhth!dhth th nlq'

    0' @enua ernhdu; Fegmhdnhf th nlq de hths perdhrh yhgc enua ernhdu hths perdhrhyhgc augcdlg ernhdu'

    ?' Lsterl; Fegmhdnhf aegkhml hfnl oerhl &ahslf aegkhml lsterl yhgc shf,'

    Obgtbfgyh suhal erdhth dephmh lsterl; Kldh egcdhu denuhr mhrl ruahf lglsephgkhgc detlhmhhg hdu. khtufnhf thnhq egcdhu hthu Hph`lnh egcdhu percl deruahf sl hgu. khtufnhf thnhq hthu Ahghdhnh egcdhu percl de shgh thgph lzlgdu

    khtuf thnhq hthu se hchlgyh' Hph`lnh ernhdugyh perdhrh yhgc ertegthgchg megchg syhrht yhgc mlnhihzdhg.

    ahdh terkhtufnhf thnhq aegurut fudua syhrh '

    ZEPUG]UDHG UGMHGC!UGMHGC AEGCEGHL ]H NLX

    @ermhshrdhg Eghdaeg Ugmhgc!Ugmhgc Denuhrch Lsnha &Gecerl Aenhdh, 0::0. _edsyeg 5:.sesebrhgc pereapuhg yhgc ersuhal bnef kldh erfhd aeabfbg pegoerhlhg aegurutsyhrht!syhrht th nlq yhgc ml`uht senephs hdhm gldhf' Dhgmugchg nhihz th nlq terse`ut;

    Aeglgcchndhg lsterl senhah eapht unhg erturut!turut' ]lmhd aea`erl ghidhf yhgc whkl` senhah eapht `unhg erturut!turut' Aegyhdltl tu`uf hmhg lsterl' _uhal tlmhd aeapemunldhg lsterl senhah teapbf eapht unhg erturut! turut'

    Zea`u`hrhg Zerdhfwlghg ; Nl#hg

    ZEGCEP]LHG NL HG

    Nl hg ernhdu hph`lnh terkhmlgyh qhzhi lhltu suhal aegumuf lsterlgyh ernhdu zlghhthu aeghildhg hghd yhgc mldhgmugcdhg bnef lsterlgyh se`hchl hghd'

    Nl hg lhnhf suaphf sebrhgc suhal hph`lnh mlh aegumuf lsterlgyh erzlgh thgphaeapugyhl eapht brhgc shdsl deouhnl mlrlgyh shfhkh. ahdh fegmhdnhf mlh`ersuaphf eapht dhnl `hfhwh mlh hmhnhf brhgc yhgc eghr mhg phmh dhnldenlahgyh `hfhwh mlh hdhg mlnhdghtl Hnnhf kldh mlh `ermusth'

    _edlrhgyh lsterl aegbnhd tumufhg terse`ut. ahdh fegmhdnhf mlh ersuaphfse`hgyhd eapht dhnl `hfhwh suhalgyh ltu `ermusth mhg phmh dhnl denlahgyh

    `hfhwh mlh hdhg mlnhdghtl Hnnhf kldh suhalgyh `eghr' Ilrahg Hnnhf su`fhghfu whth hnh;

    Hmhpug brhgc yhgc aegumuf lsterlgyh erzlgh semhgcdhg aeredh tlmhd hmh shdsl &eapht brhgc, deouhnl fhgyh mlrlgyh shfhkh ahdh pershdslhg hcl brhgc yhgc aegumuf ltufegmhdnhf mlh ersuaphf megchg ghah Hnnhf se`hgyhd eapht dhnl hfhwh sesugccufgyhmlh hmhnhf brhgc yhgc eghr' Mhg suaphfhg yhgc denlah hfhwh nhdght Hnnhf hdhgaeglaphgyh kldh mlh ermusth' Mhg ugtud aegcflgmhrdhg sedsh terfhmhp lsterl yhgctertumuf ltu fegmhdnhf sl lsterl `ersuaphf megchg ghah Hnnhf se`hgyhd eapht dhnl `hfhwh

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    suaphfhg yhgc denlah fegmhdnhf mlh `erdhth deaugcdhrhg Hnnhf hdhg aeglaph mlrlgyh' &_urhf Hg!Gur. 0=;9!

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    9' Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf fegmhdnhf aeghgmhthgchgl _lkln Oerhl yhgc tenhfmlseapurghdhg mhg aegcfhgthr shtu shnlghg dephmh Detuh Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mh PukujGecerl Aenhdh'

    3' Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf fegmhdnhf aeredbmdhg mhg aegmhithrdhgperoerhlhg terse`ut ml mhnha @udu Mhithr Oerhl'

    6' Zegmhithr fegmhdnhf aegyerhfdhg _lkln Oerhl terse`ut dephmh phshgchg erdeghhgsetenhf lsterl terse`ut thaht lmmhfgyh mhg mlredbmdhg ml mhnha udu mhithr serhfhg slklnoerhl'

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    8' _lcfhf lhltu nhihz yhgc aegugkuddhg dea`hnl dephmh lsterl shah hmh seohrh shrlf&terhgc, ahfupug dlghyhf &dlhshg,'

    0' Aurthkl lhltu suhal yhgc aeapugyhl syhrht!syhrht tertegtu'

    ?' Lsterl lhltu pereapuhg yhgc tenhf mlgldhfl megchg gldhf yhgc shf'

    _\HPH]!_\HPH] PUKU

    8' _uhal;

    Fegmhdnhf sebrhgc yhgc `erhdhn' @hnlcf' Megchg defegmhd mhg derenhhg segmlrl udhg phdshhg mhrlphmh seslhph' ]lmhd aurthm'

    0' Lsterl;

    h, Fegmhdnhf yhgc sumhf mlohapurl'`, Aestlnhf yhgc mloerhldhg megchg thnhq rhk lyy' @udhg megchg peroerhlhg

    seohrh ihshdf. dfun mhg kuch thnhq tlch'o, Fegmhdnhf mltegtudhg brhgcgyh kldh suhal `erdhfwlg ne`lf mhrlphmh shtu mhg

    tenhf aegoerhldhg e`erhph brhgc lsterlgyh'

    ?' Fegmhdnhf tlmhd mlfhmdhg dephmh sesuhtu ahsh mhg whdtu' ]lmhd shf ruku mhnha ahshyhgc tertegtu shfhkh'

    =' ]lmhd `erchgtugc dephmh sesuhtu syhrht' Puku mlsyhrl htdhg hmhnhf ertukuhg ugtudaea`bnefdhg suhal lsterl yhgc tenhf eroerhl megchg thnhq rhk lyy aegerusdhg dea`hnl

    ldhthg perdhfwlghg aeredh yhgc tenhf terputus megchg syhrht lsterl ahslf nhcl mhnha lmmhf' ]ethpl pernu mllgcht `hfhwh ruku fegmhdnhf megchg tukuhg ugtud `ermhahl `udhgderhgh lgclg aegyhdltl. aegchglhyh lsterl mhg se`hchlgyh'

    ZPB_EMUP PUKU

    8' Kldh senephs peroerhlhg yhgc bnef mlruku dhg &mhnha lmmhf rhk lyy, mhg ruku tenhf`ernhdu megchg persetukuhg ershah. plfhd!plfhd ltu fegmhdnhf aenhpbrdhg fhn peruku dhgterse`ut dephmh Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf erdeghhg mhnha teapbf tukuf&3, fhrl mhrlphmh thrldf peruku dhg ernhdu serth aegerhgcdhg utlr!`utlr yhgc erdhlthgmegchggyh mhnha brhgc yhgc mltethpdhg'

    0' @hcl plfhd!plfhd yhgc lgclg aeabfbg ruku hths persetukuhg ershah seahsh ml mhnha lmmhf rhk lyy. peabfbg fegmhdnhf fhmlr ml fhmhphg Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg PukuMherhf ershah lsterl mhg muh brhgc shdsl nenhdl'

    ?' _etlhp ruku yhgc fegmhd ml`uht ml fhmhphg Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhffegmhdnhf aeahstldhg peabfbg aegceaudhdhg slkln oerhl hshn hthu deputushg eroerhlmhrlphmh Ahfdhahf _yhrl hf erdhlthg se`enua ruku mlkhnhgdhg'

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    =' Hph`lnh Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf erpuhsfhtl hfhwh ruku terse`ut`ernhdu seohrh shf mhrl secl fudua syhrh . hfhrunhf pegmhithrhg hthu perabfbghg rukumlterlah setenhf peabfbg aegyerthdhg ershah!shah brhgc perabfbghg. shnlghg resltpegmhithrhg des peroerhlhggyh ml Ahfdhahf hthu _lkln Oerhl yhgc hshn'

    5' Zegmhithrhg hthu perabfbghg ruku fegmhdnhf mlnhdudhg ml fhmhphg Zegmhithr Gldhf.Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf'

    9' _etlhp ruku yhgc tenhf mlmhithrdhg. _lkln Oerhl hshn terse`ut hdhg mlha`ln bnef ZegmhithrGldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf erdhlthg mhg mlfhgthr dephmh Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhgPuku Mherhf yhgc aegcenuhrdhg ugtud ml`hthndhg mhg mlredbmdhg ml mhnha @udu MhithrOerhl Zegmhithr Gldhf. Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf erdhlthg'

    3' Zeabfbg yhgc tenhf mlmhithrdhg ruku aeredh hdhg mlserhfdhg dephmh aeredh _urhtDeterhgchg Puku &@brhgc 0M, mhg mlredbmdhg ml mhnha @udu Mhithr _erhfhg DeterhgchgPuku '

    6' @utlr!`utlr peruku dhg terse`ut fegmhdnhf mlohtltdhg mhg mlslaphg bnef Zegmhithr Gldhf.

    Oerhl mhg Puku Mherhf mhnha @udu Mhithr Puku &@brhgc 0E, '