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    @h` 8 ; Zergldhfhg

    8' ]hdrli Gldhf ;

    l, Mhrl secl `hfhsh ; Ldhthg hthu slapunhg'

    ll, Mhrl secl lstlnhf _yhrhd ; _uhtu Ldhthg hthu hdhm yhgc aegcfhnhndhg perchunhgmhg aea`hths fhd mhg dewhklphg serth ertbnbgc!tbnbgc ml hgthrh sebrhgc nenhdlmegchg sebrhgc pereapuhg yhgc ml hgthrh demuhgyh `udhg ahfrha'

    0' Zerdhfwlghg hmhnhf aeruphdhg sugghf Phsununnhf s'h'w' mhg mlchnhddhg mlmhnha Lsnha serth mltugtut bnef Fudua _yhrhd. se`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhfs'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum ;

    " Gldhf ltu hmhnhf sugghfdu. ahdh seslhph yhgc `egol sugghfdu ahdh sesugccufgyh lh`udhg mhrl cbnbgchgdu "' & Plwhyht L`gu Ahkhf ,

    ?' Mhnln yhgc aegugkuddhg `hfhwh perdhfwlghg ltu mltugtut bnef

    syhrhd hmhnhf sepertl `erldut ;

    Mhnln mhrl Hn!Xurhg yhgc erahdsum ; "Ahdh erdhfwlgnhf megchg seslhph yhgcdhau `erdeghg mhrl pereapuhg!pereapuhg nhlg muh. tlch hthu eapht' Deaumlhg

    kldh dhau `la`hgc tlmhd hdhg `ernhdu hmln& ml hgthrh lsterl!lsterl dhau, ahdh`erdhfwlgnhf megchg sebrhgc shfhkh"' & _urhf Hg ! Glshh# ! Hyht ? ,

    Mhnln mhrl Hs!sugghf yhgc erahdsum; "Shfhl peaumh!peaumh. seslhph yhgcahapu ml hgthrh dhau &aeapugyhl `enhgkh serth delgclghg, fegmhd `erdhfwlg.fegmhdnhf lh dhfwlg. derhgh sesugccufgyh perdhfwlghg ltu hdhg aeaekhadhgahthgyh &terfhmhp brhgc yhgc tlmhd fhnhn mlnlfhtgyh, mhg terdhwhn defbrahthggyhmhg seslhph yhgc tlmhd ahapu `erdhfwlg fegmhdnhf lh `erpuhsh. `hfhwh puhsh ltu

    aegkhml `egtegc"' & Plwhyht Ausnla , Mhrl Lkahd Unhah ; _eauh unhah sephdht aegchthdhg hfhwh fudua perdhfwlghg

    ltu hmhnhf mltugtut bnef Fudua _yhrhd'

    =' Fudua `erdhfwlg ltu hmh eapht ;

    8' Shkl` ! Brhgc yhgc oudup enhgkh mhg tlmhd mhpht aeghfhg ghisugyh'0' _ught ! Brhgc yhgc oudup enhgkh mhg lgclg erdhfwlg'?' Ahdruf ! Brhgc yhgc oudup enhgkh tethpl tlhmh delgclghg erdhfwlg'=' Fhrha ! Brhgc yhgc yhdlg tlmhd mhpht aenhdshghdhg thgccugckhwh`'

    5' Pudug!rudug gldhf ;

    Nenhdl yhgc hdhn aegkhml suhal' Zereapuhg yhgc hdhn aegkhml lsterl' Shnl yhgc hmln Muh brhgc shdsl yhgc hmln Lkh` mhg Xh`un &]hwhrhg mhg Zegerlahhg,

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    9' _yhrht!syhrht nenhdl `hdhn suhal ;

    8' @erhchah Lsnha0' ]lmhd erlfrha fhkl hthu uarhf?' Nenhdl tertegtu

    =' @enua aeapugyhl eapht lsterl5' Megchg derenhhg mlrl segmlrl udhg phdshhg9' _ebrhgc nenhdl &`udhg dfugsh ausydln,

    3' _yhrht!syhrht pereapuhg `hdhn lsterl ;

    8' @erhchah Lsnha'0' Zereapuhg yhgc tertegtu'?' @udhg Ahfrha dephmh nenhdl yhgc hdhn aegkhml suhalgyh=' @udhg lsterl brhgc mhg tlmhd ml mhnha emmhf brhgc nhlg'5' ]lmhd erlfrha fhkl hthu uarhf'

    6' _yhrht!syhrht whnl ;

    8' @erhchah Lsnha'0' _ebrhgc nenhdl'?' @hnlcf'=' Megchg derenhhg segmlrl udhg phdshhg'5' ]lmhd erlfrha fhkl hthu uarhf'9' Brhgc yhgc hmln & tlmhd ihslq ,'3' _ebrhgc yhgc seapurgh hdhngyh'

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    _lcfhf Xh`un ; Lhltu uphohrh pegerlahhg mhrlphmh nenhdl segmlrl hthupug whdlngyh setenhfseneshl slcfhf lkh` megchg tlmhd mlsenhgcl bnef hph!hph perdhthhg hslgc hthu ahsh yhgcphgkhgc'

    Obgtbfgyh ; "Hdu terlah gldhf Ihtlahf te H`munnhf megchg ahsdhfwlggyh PA =:':: tughl" '

    88' ]hgccugckhwh` suhal dephmh lsterl ;

    8' Zea`erlhg ahsdhfwlg'0' Zea`erlhg ghidhf'?' @erdenhduhg hld'=' Aea`erl la`lgchg'5' Aegkhch defbrahthg lsterl'9' Aea`erl nhyhghg zhflr mhg htlg'3' Aenhdudhg dehmlnhg sedlrhgyh erpbnlchal'

    80' ]hgccugckhwh` lsterl dephmh suhal ;

    8' Shkl` thht dephmh suhalgyh'0' Shkl` tlgcchn ml ruahf yhgc mlethpdhg bnef suhalgyh'?' Shkl` aegkhch defbrahthg mlrlgyh'=' Shkl` aegkhch ruahfthgcchgyh'5' ]lmhd aegbnhd phgcclnhg suhal kldh mlphgccln de teapht tlmur'

    8?' ]hgccugckhwh` `ershah suhal mhg lsterl ;

    8' Fhnhn perchunhg se`hchl suhal!lsterl'0' _uol eglf deturughg'?' Sukum fhd pushdh!aeapushdhl ml hgthrh demuhgyh'=' _hf thrhi hghd &deturughg, dephmh suhal'5' Dewhklphg demuhgyh ernhdu mhnha perchunhg'9' @eraesyuhrht mhg er`lgohgc ml mhnha fhn efwhn ruahfthgcch'3' @ernhdu hmln ml mhnha sechnh `egtud deflmuphg'

    _ua`er Pukudhg ;

    8' Ilqf Laha Hs!_yhile ! Fk' Lmrls `lg Hfahm '0' Plgcdhshg Aughdhfht ! L`gu Phfaht '

    @h` 0; Duiu Mhnha Zergldhfhg

    8' Duiu `erahdsum pershahhg. denhyhddhg hthu sephmhg'0' Duiu tlmhd aegkhml syhrht mhnha perdhfwlghg. tethpl kldh tlmhd megchg deremfhhg

    ahslgc!ahslgc. ahdh bnefnhf aeaihshdfdhg gldhfgyh ltu megchg hnhshg tlmhdduiu'

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    ?' Ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' ml mhnha Hn!Xur#hg yhgc `erahdsum ; "Shfhl sedenlhg ahguslhsesugccufgyh dhal khmldhg dhau mhrl nenhdl mhg pereapuhg mhg dhal khmldhg dhau`er`hgcsh!`hgcsh mhg erpuhd!puhd hchr dhau deghn!aegceghn ml hgthrh shtumegchg yhgc nhlg . `hfhwh sesugccufgyh seaunlh!aunlh dhau ml slsl Hnnhf yhgc

    phnlgc `erthqwh mlhgthrh dhau . sesugccufgyh Hnnhf Ahfh Aegcethful mhg [email protected] "'

    =' _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum ; "]lmhd hmh dene`lfhg brhgc Hrh` hthsbrhgc yhgc `udhg Hrh` mhg se`hnldgyh. tlmhd hmh brhgc putlf hths brhgc fltha mhgse`hnldgyh. tethpl dene`lfhg yhgc shtu mhrl yhgc nhlg fhgyhnhf megchg thqwh "'

    5' Duiu `erpugoh mhrlphmh nlah se`h` ;

    _enhaht mhrlphmh #hl` sepertl clnh hthu pegyhdlt dunlt' Aermedh `udhg fha`h ' Deturughg' Zederkhhg' #Liihf &De`bnefhg hthu desbphghg ,

    @h` ? ; Dflhr Mhnha Zerdhfwlghg

    8' Dflhr erahdsum shnhf shtu plfhd shahmh suhal hthu lsterl aeapugyhl fhd ugtudaealnlf ml hgthrh mlterusdhg gldhfgyh hthu ihshdf'

    0' Hph`lnh ernhdu pergldhfhg ml hgthrh sebrhgc nenhdl megchg sebrhgc pereapuhg yhgctlmhd mldethful hmh ohoht!oenhgyh. ahdh bnefnhf demuh enhf plfhd hthu shnhf shtumhrlphmhgyh dflhr'

    ?' @hcl nenhdl yhgc aea`bnefdhg dflhr phmhgyh hmh nlah perdhrh lhltu;

    H' Clnh'@' Khzha' & pegyhdlt dusth ,O' @hrhsf' & pegyhdlt sbphd ,M' [hdhr yhgc terpbtbgc seauh sedhnl hthu sephruf'E' #Ugghf & ahtl puoud ,

    =' @hcl pereapuhg yhgc aea`bnefdhg dflhr phmhgyh hmh nlah perdhrh;

    h, Clnh'`, Khzha' &pegyhdlt dusth,o, @hrhsf &pegyhdlt sbphd,m, Puthqh# &ihrhk yhgc tersua`ht megchg mhclgc mhg aegcfhnhgc mhrl persetu`ufhg,e, Xurhgh# &ihrhk yhgc tersua`ht megchg tunhgc mhg aegcfhnhgc mhrl persetu`ufhg,

    5' Kldh ernhdu shnhf shtu mhrlphmh ohoht!oenh lgl ahdh `bnefnhf demuh enhf plfhd hthushnhf shtu mhrlphmhgyh dflhr. ihshdf hqhm gldhf se`erhph secerh megchg syhrht mlnhdudhgdflhr mlfhmhphg Xhmfl'

    9' #Ugghf & ahtl puoud , tlmhd mlghildhg aenhlgdhg pegchduhg mhrl suhal segmlrl mlfhmhphg Xhmfl hthu megchg shdsl yhgc aegyhdsldhg ldrhrgyh hthu megchg suaphf lsterl

    kldh suhalgyh egcchg aea`uht pegchduhg. ahdh mltethpdhg `hfhwh lh ahtl puoud.

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    senephs ltu Xhmfl aea`erl teapbf sethfug dephmh suhal suphyh eru`ht'Hph`lnh sumhfsethfug teapbfgyh kldh lh tlmhd ahapu aegsetu`ufl lsterlgyh ahdh lsterl aegchmu dephmhXhmfl ahdh mlterlah ihshdfgyh'

    @h` =; Shglth!whglth \hgc Fhrha Mldhfwlgl

    8' Zereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc fhrha mldhfwlgl ltu ter`hfhcl dephmh muh hfhclhg;

    l' Fhrha uht senhahgyh'll' Fhrha uht seaegthrh whdtu'

    0' _e`h`!se`h` fhrha mldhfwlgl;

    l' Fhrha megchg se`h` deturughg'll' Fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg'lll' Fhrha megchg se`h` perseaegmhhg' & Ausyhfhrhf ,

    ?' Fhrha megchg se`h` deturughg;

    l' L`u mhg geged flgcch de hths'll' Hghd mhg ouou flgcch de`hwhf'lll' Hmld!`erhmld pereapuhg sel u!se`hph hthu se hph hthu sel u shfhkh'lv' L`u shumhrh se enhf `hph & hmld erhmld pereapuhg se`enhf hph , flgcch de

    hths'v' L`u shumhrh se enhf l u & hmld!`erhmld pereapuhg se enhf l u , flgcch de hths'vl' Hghd shumhrh mhrl hmld!`erhmld nenhdl flgcch de`hwhf'vll' Hghd shumhrh mhrl hmld!`erhmld pereapuhg flgcch de `hwhf' ! Ilrahg Hnnhf

    s'w't' yhgc `erahdsum;

    "Mlfhrhadhg de hths dhau aegchfwlgl l`u dhau. hghd shumhrh. eahd shumhrh se`enhf`hph . eahd shumhrh se`enhf l`u . hghd shumhrh mhrl shumhrh nenhdl mhg hghd shumhrh mhrl shumhrh pereapuhg dhau "' & _urhf Hg!Glshh# ! Hyht 00 ,

    =' Fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg ;

    l' L`u yhgc aegyusudhg'll' _humhrh pereapuhg sesusuhg' Ilrahg Hnnhf s'w't' yhgc `erahdsum ;

    "Mlfhrhadhg l`u!l`u yhgc aegyusudhg dhau mhg shumhrh! sumhrh dhau sepersusuhg"'& _urhf Hg!Glshh# ! Hyht 0? ,

    _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w yhgc erahdsum;

    "Fhrha mhrl susuhg se`hchlahgh fhrha mhrl deturughg "' &Plwhyht @udfhrl mhg Ausnla,

    Zereapuhg!pereapuhg yhgc fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg hmhnhf shah megchg brhgc!brhgcyhgc fhrha megchg se`h` deturughg'

    @h` =; Shglth!whglth \hgc Fhrha Mldhfwlgl

    suhal!lsterl'we`s'oba

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    5' _yhrht!syhrht fhrha megchg se`h` susuhg ;

    h, L`u yhgc tenhf aegyusudhg ltu tenhf `hnlcf' `, Hghd yhgc mlsusudhg ltu `eruslh muh thfug' _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w'

    yhgc erahdsum; "]lmhdnhf susuhg ltu aenhlgdhg mhnha nlgcdugchg uaur muhthfug"' & Plwhyht MhruXutgl ,

    o, @lnhgchg aegyusu shaphl nlah dhnl yhgc erhslgchg mhg setlhp dhnl aegyusu aestlshaphl degyhgc' _h`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc `erahdsum; " Hmhnhf phmh hyht yhgcmlturugdhg mhrlphmh Hn!Xurhhg lhnhf sepunuf dhnl susu yhgc ahdnua nhcl aegcfhrhadhg deaumlhg mlahgsufdhg megchg nlah dhnl susu shfhkh"' & Plwhyht Ausnla ,

    m, _usu yhgc ml`erl dephmh dhghd!dhghd ltu aestlnhf mltenhg mhg shaphl de perutdhghd!dhghd ltu phmh denlah!nlahgyh' _e`hchlahgh sh`mh Phsununnhf s'h'w' yhgc`erahdsum; "]lmhd mlfhrhadhg erdhfwlg mhrl susuhg ltu aenhlgdhg susuhg yhgcshaphl dephmh perut dhghd!dhghd ltu mhg pegyusuhg ltu punh aestl `umhd yhgcaegyusu ltu `enua `eruaur muh th